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How many is to many? |
| My husband and i are trying to end an arguement about the number of children we should have, maybe you can help us?
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MOM TO MANY
10/8/2006 |
| Maybe it would be helpful if i told you that combined my husband and i have 15 children who all live with us, including four sets of twins. The children range in age from 16 - 3. My husband would like to have another baby but i think that we have more then enough on our plate already. PLEASE HELP
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MOM TO MANY
10/11/2006 |
| I think only you can answer that question. If you want another one then have one, but if you feel you've had enough then you probably shouldn't have another one.
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Jayelle
10/12/2006 |
| Thanks for your input. I have 6 children from a prior relationship,and they are: Taelyr & Matthieu(boys,16), Kay'lah(14),
Jairrod & Sevanah(8,boy/girl), Blayd(6,boy). My husband also has 6 children from his first marriage(she passed away due to breast cancer)
and they are: Shelbeigh & Chelsy(girls,13), Kieran(boy,10),
Harlea(girl,9), Jaimie(boy,7), Somantha(girl,5). Together we have 3 who are: Fayth & Mykhul(girl/boy,4) and last but not least there is Madasyn who is 3. My husband would like to have 1 more but like i say i don't know about that, mind you it would even out the number
IF we had "1", and it was a boy. WHO KNOWS WHAT LIFE MAY BRING !!
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MOM TO MANY
10/14/2006 |
| I say that is quite alot of children but then again waht is one more when you already have so many.Well GOOD LUCK
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mommie x4
10/17/2006 |
| That is too many children. You should look at putting some in foster care so they will at least have some individual attention. My Grandma had 11 children and they hardly had any money or individual attention from their parents when they were growing up. I think it is cruel to have more than five children at a time. That would be the absolute limit.
It's coincidental how your husbands children and your children all have similar sort of unusual names. His late wife and you must have similar taste in names.
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Lilli
11/20/2006 |
| Lilli,
Are you crazy! People dont have kids just to put them in foster care! What a horrible thing to suggest. How would you like it if your parents just up and dropped you off. I hope you dont have any children!
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arj8585
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| Ha Ha, I would have loved it if my parents had up and dropped me off to foster care, that was a fantasy of mine growing up, and yes I do have children...less than five!
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Lilli
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| i see nothing wrong with having so many children. Do You know what "quiverful" is? I have been trying to start a quiverful life stile my self(along with my husband's help lol)
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Sushi
4/25/2007 |
| That is too funny. Noone can help you. Sorry.
Suppose Someone suggested -"yeah, have more" and that just sent you or him right over the edge- gosh.what a responsibility-...lol. Good luck in your decision together! I know you will make the best one for the entire family!
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Logansmom
1/3/2008 |
| Well the argument is over and we now have another little girl and her name is "Cayleigh Elizabeth" she was born on July 9, 2009.
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sweet 16
9/8/2009 |
| Wow, it sounds like you have a lot on your plate. I wonder what your day looks like.
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Shree
8/18/2017 |
| Hi welcome friend. I can understand your physical and mental stage at this situation. You can easily handle this difficult situation with positive thinking. It is not good signal that you have no bonding between husband and wife. The first and foremost thing to achieve your baby dream in your life is to make proper understanding each other feeling and emotion very well. It is very necessary to understand each other feeling and provide satisfaction in intercourse to achieve your dream in your life. I also face same problem in my life. I want to forget those days of my life that ruins my life day by day. I want to overcome this critical situation at any cost.
I want to accept my husband’s help to handle this difficult situation in professional way. It is a good idea to make proper planning to conceive effectively to enjoy endless joy in your life. We consult with popular gynecologist of Ukraine to understand my problem and provide effective treatment to achieve target in limited time period. I want to appreciate your strong wish. It is your strongest nobody can stop you to achieve your target but the important thing is you to handle proper balance in relationship with your husband. You have to live Healthy lifestyle that enhance your husband sperm and your eggs quality that is beneficial for both of you. You should make genuine planning about number of children to understand each other needs. Now I am living happy and healthy life with two children that fulfill my family with brightness. I am feeling proud to become complete mother in my life. It is dream of every woman to achieve this highest success in their life. I hope you and success all find your life.
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Deepika
8/18/2017 |
