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Hi, lovelies! This is June from Arizona. Well, I just joined this forum to have some friends and people to count on...I think there are good people out there in the world. Well! I myself have been fighting out this issue of my own...I think there are people like me. Well, more clearly I have just been through a realization that I am an infertile person. Unfortunately, that's in my life...I still am hopeful at some point that something might work. I am still trying to have a treatment..I think I need support and some advice to go on with it...That's all I meant! xoxo bless ya'll. 1 JuneSmith
10/21/2017
Hello, June. Thank you for sharing your story. I know that it was hard enough to say that you are infertile. I remember the time when my sister was diagnosed to be infertile. It was awful. She was completely frustrated. I am a mother of two kids and I canít imagine my life without them. I was supporting my sister during her treatment. She tried every possible medical treatment and even IVF. Unfortunately, nothing helped her to succeed. We visited a lot of reproduction centers and consulted a lot of doctors. All of them agreed that she has two options. Adoption and surrogacy. I can recommend you the same. These both services would help you to become parents. My sister has chosen the surrogacy. We have found a great clinic in Ukraine. The price was affordable and the doctors there are really great. Iím really glad that we found the solution and my lovely sister got her baby. She is a mother of 2 years old baby boy. He was born absolutely healthy and stayed under doctorsí control for 3 days. I didnít believe that surrogacy really works. But now I know that it is a great option for infertile couples. Also, before going for surrogacy you can try the IVF. But at first, please consult your gyno to figure out if it would work in your situation. There are a lot of cases when IVF doesnít help. So, there would be no need to waste extra money. These services are not cheap at all. By the way, have you been thinking of adoption? It can also be a great solution for you. I know several couples, which adopted. Their kids are amazing. 2 AmandaR
10/22/2017
Hi June. It is saddening to hear about your condition but let me tell you that you aren't alone. There are many women in the world who are unable to conceive. Including me. I am 30 years old who has been married for seven years now. Not being able to have children was considered almost like a taboo. I too felt that there was something missing in my life. This was when I started searching for alternate methods to have kids. Adoption came to mind but I wasn't much inclined towards it. I soon found about a clinic that offers surrogacy. After much research, I realized that it was the very solution I needed. With surrogacy, you can have a child who shares your genes. The procedure is safe and legal in many countries. I am glad I took that decision. People are still nervous while taking such decisions, worrying and stress change nothing for us. 3 jeeni
10/24/2017
Hi June. You came to the right place. You will find plenty of support and advice on this forum. This forum is full of women like you who are infertile or are having trouble conceiving. I am one such woman but two years ago I decided to take control of my life and you should do the same. I couldn't let fate decide whether I could have kids or not. I come from a family where blood and genes matter a lot, and my husband shares these values too. This is why I always knew that adoption won't be a possibility. I read about surrogacy on Instagram one day. I was immediately curious. I did much research on the matter and I realized this was just the solution I needed. If you are interested I would love to share more about my experience. 4 Quebec
10/27/2017
Hi, June and all the other ladies out there who are going through this issue. Infertility can be depressing. But like Amanda pointed out, there are still solutions available. So don't give up hope. I second her opinion on surrogacy. I too have had an experience similar to her sister's. Due to a rare heart condition, I was unable to conceive but I didn't let that stop me. Instead, I started looking for alternative routes I could take. One such route led me to this wonderful clinic. It offered excellent surrogacy services. The doctors are well informed and experienced. Meanwhile, the staff is helpful and accommodating. I had a wonderful experience there. I would recommend surrogacy to anyone faced with infertility. It is much safer than the other methods available. 5 iqajezee
10/28/2017
Hi girls. Not so long ago, I too was fighting infertility. I was afraid that I would have to resign myself to a life without children. This thought would often depress me. This is because I love children. This issue also had a strong impact on my personal life. I was unable to have a proper relationship as I was afraid of being rejected when my partner found out about my infertility. But I was fortunate enough to find a man who saw beyond this issue. He stuck with me despite this. And in fact, he helped me find a solution. Together we explored different options and finally settled on one. Surrogacy. It was scary at the start, but the clinic I went to was most supportive. They guided us every step of the way. 5 years later I now have a 4-year-old daughter and a 2-year-old son! 6 kagirelle
10/28/2017
Hi. I am a 30-year-old woman. I have a 3-year-old son. But shortly after his birth, I was in an accident. Due to severe spinal injury, I was told I won't be able to have children again. I am thankful that I at least got to have one child before the accident. But I still yearn for a daughter. Is there anyway? I have heard surrogacy is a good option. Does anybody have any information about that? Bear in mind, that adoption is not a suitable option for me. I wouldn't want to create an environment wherein the future that might cause a rift between my natural born and adopted children. This is why I believe that surrogacy might be a more suitable option. If you could please provide some more information, I would be obliged. In particular, do mention a suitable clinic that I could go to. 7 deffyttippu
10/28/2017
Hey Amanda. Surrogacy does really work! It changed my life too. A few years ago I didn't think it would be possible to have a child. But I was proven wrong. We went to a surrogacy clinic. I couldn't provide eggs or carry a child. So we selected a donor for the eggs. After retrieval of the eggs, my husband donated sperm. This was used to fertilize the eggs. Then the clinic selected a surrogate mother. We weren't allowed to meet her at the time. But we have been assured that we can meet her at 12 weeks of pregnancy. The fertilized eggs were placed in her womb. After 12 weeks we got to keep in touch with the surrogate mother. It was all very exciting. I hope this was heplful. 8 orreffaddapo
10/28/2017
I hope you are doing great. Well, Arizona is a nice place and I have heard a lot about. I wish I could also visit it some time in my life. I am very sorry for your infertility problem. I know how you feel about this. The thing is that you have to face the reality. You have made the right place to come on this forum and share your problems. This forum certainly has very good people who are friendly and supportive. I have made some friends here too. I have read that you are having your treatment and thatís a very good thing because you need to fight it. Now you might be thinking that how I am aware of all this condition related to yours. Well, June I am also not able to get pregnant and you should also stop feeling yourself alone. I was diagnosed with a heart disease after my marriage. I had to face a lot of bad comments from people and many such things, but I didn.t lose any hope. I started my treatment and I am still having it. I think you should also keep on going with your treatment and hope for the things to change. Itís been 3 years now that I have been having my treatment so should also not worry about it. Just be strong. If you get tired of your treatment then there are a few other ways to deal with infertility such as the surrogacy process. Donít think about any alternative process until you are done with your treatment. I am also sticking with the same advice that women gave me on this forum. I hope it also helps you. Xoxo. 9 jawemoty
10/29/2017
Hello Amanda. I get a lot of hope when I see women like you who took out some time from their busy routine to just come up here and help other women with different fertility issues. You are like an angel for the women who will get help from your post like I have. It is very hard to believe when a woman comes to know that she can no longer become a mother. It feels like everything has finished and there is no purpose of this life because it is the children that make a family complete and it is what a woman ever dreams of. Well, I am also not able to fulfill this dream. You will be surprised after I tell you that I am completely fertile bust still not able to have my baby. This is due to my heart disease that is known as MITRAL STENOSIS. It is a very rare and fatal disease. Itís been more than 3 years now that I have been having my treatment and fighting against this fatal disease. I never lost hope. My husband has always supported me a lot and that has made me much stronger women than I was but you know inside I am getting tired of this treatment, and I want to have my baby as soon as possible. After all, I am a woman and I can no longer stand for it. I was also considering surrogacy an option if my treatment still does no good to my problem. I discussed it with my husband but he disagreed as he was not satisfied. He wanted to know someoneís experience who has gone through this process. Thank God! Finally, your post has made me show that itís safe and easy way to have our own baby. I hope it works. I am very thankful for your help. Stay blessed. 10 upykawok
10/29/2017
I can absolutely know the feelings that you have now. Itís a very difficult phase of life for every women who is infertile. But itís our fate and we need to accept it first so that we can move on. Always remember when one door closes many other get open. So there are a few solutions for the infertile women but the thing is to make the decision on the right time. I am completely fertile but still not able to have a baby. It also hurts me a lot. I have never lost hope and I suggest you to do the same. You should carry on your treatment until the doctors clearly tell you that there is no success in this treatment. After that you will have a few more options to have your own children. Obviously every women has a dream to have a complete family and without children there is no complete family. You can go for the adaptation or surrogacy process instead carrying out your treatment. But you need to make a careful decision as it your whole life will depend on it. I will suggest you to have surrogacy. It is a very comforting process to have your own baby. You will lack feelings for the adapted baby and it will not be good for your and the babies future. So why not have your own baby with the help of surrogacy. You can easily get all the information about it on the internet. You must talk about it with your husband first. If he agrees to it you can ask me about the clinic also. My friend told me about a clinic that offers surrogacy and has the best services. I would love to help. Just make the right choice. Stay blessed. 11 hyppicafev
10/29/2017
I can imagine what you are going through, the feeling when you come to know that you are not able to become a mother and it can be the same for the rest of your life. Let me tell you dear that you are not alone in this. There are about 20% women in the world who are facing infertility problems. I am also happy to know that you did not lose hope at any moment of this difficult journey. I am also doing the same. I was diagnosed with a heart disease known as Mitral stenosis about 4 years ago. The doctors told me that it will take a lot of time to get cured or it will remain the same. I gathered my thoughts and decided to be strong. I have been having my treatment since 3 years and I want to continue it for a few more years to satisfy myself. I suggest you that you should also do the same. Keep on having your treatment and I hope that one day you will also get out of this harsh condition. There are alternative ways to have your baby if you donít want to continue with the treatment. Well, I will suggest you the best option I know and it is surrogacy. It is one of the growing procedure for infertile women to have a baby. There are a lot of clinics now and you can go anywhere you want. But if you want my help then I can suggest you one of the best clinics also that offers surrogacy. You should first look into this process and then come up with a decision. I am here to help you. Lots of hugs! 12 lenadufa
10/29/2017
I can totally know the emotions that you have now. It's an extremely troublesome period of life for each lady who is barren. In any case, it's our destiny and we have to acknowledge it first so we can proceed onward. There are a couple of answers for the infertile ladies however the thing is to settle on the choice at the ideal time. I am totally fruitful yet at the same time not ready to have a child. It likewise harms me a considerable measure. I have never lost expectation and I propose you to do likewise. You should bear on your treatment until the point when the specialists obviously reveal to you that there is no accomplishment in this treatment. After that, you will have a couple of more alternatives to have your own children. You can choose adaptation or surrogacy process rather doing your treatment. In any case, you have to settle on a cautious choice as your entire life will rely upon it. I will propose you to have surrogacy. It is an extremely encouraging procedure with 100% outcomes to have your own baby. You will need a natural interaction for the adopted one and it won't be work for you and the child's future. So for what reason not have your own infant with the assistance of surrogacy. You can without much of a stretch get all the data about it on the web. On the off chance that he consents to it you can get some information about the center moreover. My companion informed me concerning a facility that offers surrogacy and has the best administrations. I would love to offer assistance. Simply settle on the correct decision. Remain favored. 13 mubippery
10/29/2017
June! I know how it feels when you come to realize that you are not ready to wind up noticeably a mother and it can be the same for whatever is left of your life. Let me tell you that you are not the only one in this. There are so many ladies on the planet who are confronting infertility issues. I am additionally cheerful to realize that you didn't lose trust at any snapshot of this troublesome adventure. I was determined to have a coronary illness known as Mitral stenosis around 4 years back. The specialists revealed to me that it will require a ton of investment to get cured or it will continue as before. I accumulated my contemplations and chose to be solid. I have been having my treatment from 3 years and I need to proceed with it for a couple of more years to fulfill myself. Continue having your treatment and I trust that one day you will also escape this brutal condition. There are elective approaches to have your child on the off chance that you would prefer not to proceed with the treatment. Well, I will propose you the best choice I know and it is surrogacy. It is one of the developing methodologies for fruitless ladies to have a child. There is a considerable measure of facilities now and you can go anyplace you need. Be that as it may, on the off chance that you need my assistance then I can recommend you outstanding amongst other facilities likewise that offers surrogacy. You should first look into this procedure and after that surface with a choice. I am here to help you. Loads of embraces! 14 kafynnujo
10/29/2017
"Hey, June! This is Jade, a Chicagoan. I myself joined this forum just two months ago and I'm already thanking the moment I stumbled upon this beautiful forum, members are so understanding of the childbirth-related issues any female has to face and are brave enough to share their own experiences. I myself and my sister have the same condition as you do and we have been so depressed for months until someone from this group, a great lady, made us aware of the alternatives. Honestly, we never thought there is an alternative. I literally was like, doggone, why we ladies don't ever think of such options? Three weeks and two days ( and seven hours to be semi-exact) ago, we four, me, my sister and our husbands paid a visit to a clinic. I'd admit that even after reading all the helpful and encouraging experiences on this page, I was still hesitant when I was sitting in front of the doctor, but soon after, I realized how professional and considerate of how we feel, our doctor was very through the whole process. Every once in a few minutes, after briefing us, she'd ask each one of us if we had any questions... They told us to take our time to think about it - I hated it. I hated it when they asked us that (to take time) maybe because I was so amped up about the whole process and wanted to get done with this as quickly as possible so I can be with my baby soon. Closing my experience - we are done with all the tests and documentation process and now they are finding the perfect surrogate mother while we wait impatiently :) (Will soon share my experience of chapters yet to come) Toodaloo!" 15 rugeppuddaz
10/29/2017
Hi everyone! I would personally recommend surrogacy is the solution to your problem. Being childless is hard. So one needs to do everything in their power to remedy that. A colleague of mine opted for surrogacy. She went to this clinic and she was more than happy with the service. She was unable to produce eggs. But the rest of her reproductive system was working just fine. So the clinic suggested that she should opt for egg donation. In this service, another woman donates the eggs. These were then fertilized by my colleague's husband's sperm. After this, the fertilized eggs were placed in my colleague's womb. And that was it. She was pregnant. What had seemed impossible became possible thanks to surrogacy and this clinic. 16 sofogaqill
10/29/2017
Hello ladies. Your stories are inspiring to say the least. I would like to share my story as well. I hope that it will help other women who are in the position I was in a few years ago. When I was young, I was in an accident. The doctors told me I couldn't have a child. I was devastated but I refused to give up. Upon getting more tests done it was found out that I was ovulating normally, but my uterus just wasn't able to carry the fetus. So I went over to a surrogacy clinic. My husband and I donated sperm and eggs respectively. These were fertilized and placed in a surrogate mother's womb. This way we were able to ensure that our child would be ours biologically. And that's what happened. When our son was born he looked just like my husband. Except for the eyes which looked like mine. 17 eceppisa
10/29/2017
Hello there, June. Much love and support for you. There is no need to lose hope just yet. Fortunately, we live in a time when anything is possible. The solution to your infertility issue is surrogacy. Just head over to a surrogacy clinic that is experienced in the field. I know of just the right one. All you will need to do is give me a few initial tests. These will determine what you need. Whether you need just an egg donor. Or whether you need a surrogate mother or both. Next, the eggs, whether your's or the donors are fertilized. This is done using your husband's sperm. Next step is to insert the fertilized eggs in either your womb or the womb of the surrogate mother. This depends upon whether you can carry a child or not. And that is it. After the pregnancy period, you will have a child. 18 Cassidy
10/29/2017

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