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Hi! I am new on this forum. I am trying to get pregnant for several years. I don't have any hope left that I will succeed. I sometimes think that it is not destined for me to have my child. I want that more then anything but I think I will not have the chance to hold my baby in arms. I don't what I expect from this forum. Maybe just someone who will tell me that it would be fine. Or just someone who will listen what I am going through. I talk to my husband and family. They are there for me but I think that they don't understand me. They don't know how hard it is. I think that someone who is or was in the same situation can better understand it. I am trying to live my life. It's hard and I am crying a lot. I don't have anymore tears. My heart is crying. I often dream about my child and when I wake up there is all gone. 1 MaryJean
10/17/2017
Hi MaryJean! I am so sorry about your condition. I want you to know that you have my support. I would be glad to help you get through this. Do you know what is the cause for your infertility? I think it's better that you know. Mostly because the treatments are different for each case. Sometimes we can defeat this problem with medicaments. Sometimes it is not enough. Then we have to take other measures. Today there are many other ways t get pregnant. Don't be sad. First you talk to your doctor. Try to found out what is the reason why can you get pregnant. If it is something that will not cure any pill try to contact the BioTexCom. It is the clinic in Ukraine. I recommend it to everyone. I don't recommend no one when I am not sure that they are good. For this clinic I am sure because they helped me in my case. 2 IsabellaJ
10/17/2017
Hi there Mary. Many people have been struggling in delivering. I have a friend who had been struggling with getting a child just like you. She spent nearly five years TTC and lastly managed it. I would like to inform you that there are many reasons why people face infertility. Have you seen a doctor yet? do you know the core of your infertility problem? Maybe you are suffering from fibroids or your fallopian tubes were blocked. I would advise you go and see a doctor and see how you can get helped. My friend was suffering from endometriosis and after going to this clinic bio tex, she was helped. It was such a relief holding her first child in her hands. I would tell you not to give up. Many people have been through the same problem and came out winners. If nothing can be done in your case you can try adoption. Many people do not think of adopting maybe of various reasons. But i can assure you that a child is a blessing. All the best dear. 3 Noreen
10/19/2017
hey maryjean i am so sorry for what you are going through.you can count on me you have my fuul support.do you know what is the cause to your infertility?i think you should get to find out so that you can know the way foward their are different medications for different infertility problems also if they do not work their still other ways you can be able to have kids one of them is surrogacy.dont give up friend 4 debbie brown
10/20/2017
I've been there, dear. Infertility is an awful experience for any woman. I know how hard it is to see negative result every single time. But you should stay strong to fight this awful problem. A lot of women face infertility every day. It is very important not to give up. My story started when I was 32. We were ttc for several years but we didn't succeed. That's why we decided to go to the reproduction center to figure out what's happened. My eggs were of poor quality and doctor said that IVF could help us. We tried it three times but it didn't work for us. We were ready to give up but my friend recommended us to go to the adoption center to ask if they could find a newborn for us. Believe it or not but they did it. In 5 months we adopted an amazing baby girl, which was left by her mother. I was very happy. I have never been thinking of adoption. But now I love our princess like as she is ours. Now she is 4 years old and we are ready to go for one more baby. My husband said that we should try the surrogacy. We have chosen the reproduction center and did all the tests. It didn't take much time to finish all the preparations. An agreement was signed and the embryo was transferred. Everything happened so fast, you can't even imagine. My husband took care of all details. So, our surrogate is 3 months pregnant now. I still can't believe that we will have our biological baby in 6 months. This is miracle. Modern medicine is so powerful. I think you should discuss this option with your husband. Stop crying! It's time to do something. Do you want to be a mom or not??? 5 LindaLL
10/22/2017
Hi Mary Jean, I hope you are doing fine. I really felt bad after reading your post. I know how it feels to not to become a mother. Have you consulted the doctor? If yes, what is the reason for not being able to conceive? Please do not lose hope, as there will be definitely a way out. Please do not cry and do not stress yourself. I hope that you have your baby soon. 6 Quebec
10/27/2017
"I can relate to how you must be feeling. It's a pain...painful period in a woman's life. I remember when I was hearing the same news from every specialist in the country, I used to cry my lungs out by the time my husband would take me back home. Nights and days are equally sad. But by the age of 28, I met this woman who guided me about the revolutionary progress that the medical science has made in the last decade. She made me aware of the options I had. I thought adoption is the only option I will ever have, having a biological (my own child) seemed like a dream, but boy oh boy, was I not amazed to find out that, technically (or I'd rather say logically). There is no difference in giving birth to a child by yourself or taking services of reproduction centers. If you haven't already, I highly recommend that you explore the options available to you. Because I have experienced it myself, I, from all the options, had chosen surrogacy and will not make a different choice if I have to make a choice... again... ever!" 7 sofogaqill
10/29/2017
Hello, Emiraven, I hope to find you to the best of your health. I am really glad to know that you have successfully become a mother. Your story will be a source of inspiration for many other women who are suffering from infertility. I know it is hard to accept that you are suffering from infertility. However, if you are courageous then you definitely find a way out. I used to cry every night when I found my infertility. One of my colleagues suggested me about surrogacy and now I have a 2-year-old baby girl 8 hyppicafev
10/31/2017
Hello Mary. You have come to the right platform to gain some sympathy and support. Women over here are like a family to each other because they understand each otherís feelings. It is very hard for any woman who comes to know that she cannot be a mother ever in her life. Children are the most important thing for a woman after she is married. I can understand your feelings completely because I am also going through the same difficult and unhappy phase of my life. I am not infertile but my heart disease does not let me have a baby. I used to cry a lot and feel isolated before I joined this forum. Thatís good even if your family listens to you. I have seen families who do not even listen to the infertile women. Donít be so disappointed Marry. You can still become a mother. I think you have not heard about surrogacy. You can become a mother through surrogacy. In this process, the clinic will take your eggs and your husbandís egg to form an embryo and then that embryo will be implanted in the surrogate motherís womb who will carry your child. You donít need to worry at all even if you cannot donate eggs. There is a clinic that can also arrange the egg donor for you. Tell about surrogacy to your husband and your family. They will definitely agree to it and you will become a mother of your own child. 9 sofogaqill
10/31/2017
Hi dear. I am sorry for your loss. It is the most heartbreaking condition of any women who are not able to get pregnant. I can feel that you really need a lot of love and support. I am here for you dear. You donít need to worry anymore. You will get a lot of useful experiences and suggestions over here. There are almost 20% women in the world who are facing the infertility issues. So you are not alone in this. We all are with you. This is not the end of your life. There is a lot much left in your life. You just need to focus on the solution for your problem and hope for the best. I am also not able to get pregnant. I was diagnosed with a heart disease after the first year of my marriage. It also tore me apart and I thought that nothing is left for me. But then I decided to move on because there is a reason for my existence and I have to make my existence count. I searched for different solutions for related to infertility and mu condition and the most promising and comforting process I had found was surrogacy. It is a process in through which any infertile women can become a mother. Even If you can produce eggs or not. There is a clinic in Ukraine that can arrange egg donors also for the patient. Your egg and your husbandís sperm will be taken to from an embryo. That embryo will be implanted in the surrogate mother. The woman who will carry your child. It takes almost 3 months to the clinic to find a surrogate mother of your match and then after following 9 months you will have your baby. Look, there is still a lot of hope. So consider my suggestion and talk to your husband about it. 10 eceppisa
10/31/2017
Hi there Mary. Many people have been struggling in delivering. I have a friend who had been struggling with getting a child just like you. She spent nearly five years TTC and lastly managed it. I would like to inform you that there are many reasons why people face infertility. Have you seen a doctor yet? do you know the core of your infertility problem? Maybe you are suffering from fibroids or your fallopian tubes were blocked. I would advise you go and see a doctor and see how you can get helped. My friend was suffering from endometriosis and after going to this clinic bio tex, she was helped. You can find more information here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9aRuufzCYA. It was such a relief holding her first child in her hands. I would tell you not to give up. Many people have been through the same problem and came out winners. If nothing can be done in your case you can try adoption. Many people do not think of adopting maybe of various reasons. But i can assure you that a child is a blessing. All the best dear. 11 Tifanny
12/5/2017
Hi everyone! I hope everyone is doing great and I hope that I am also treated as a family here as other women. My friend recommended me this forum as she knows that I was very stressed and want to just spit out every depressing thing in my mind. I couldnít do so with my family and friends because I was very upset and shy. i was thinking for a long time to share my problem via this forum. i know all of you know how it is important to have a complete family. i was in deep sorrow because of having no children after marriage. I could not have been able to recover myself from my grief and this upset condition if my husband had not supported from the time I was diagnosed that i can't be a mother. he took me to different doctors to cure the problems. actually i had some serious infections in my body which created many hurdles to for me to give birth to a baby. my husband truly loves me a lot and always tries to take good care of me. I feel very luck on this side. He has never said something harsh to me related to my disease or about not being able to have babies. My life is his first priority. Well I am looking for the surrogacy procedure. I hope I get to make a decision soon. Earlier I was thinking of adaptation but my husband refused it. I hope he does not refuse for surrogacy as it is a safe procedure to have your own children. 12 talinda4
12/31/2017
My mane is Cristina. I am 31 years old. My colleague advised me to join this forum. she also found it very useful at the time when she was also facing problem related to infertility. Because she had some major disease in her body. She now has a beautiful baby with the help of surrogacy. She has gone through this process with the help of ďBioTexComĒ. And now she is living a healthy life as well. She suggested me to contact that clinic and tell them your problem.i searched for their website and contact them. The way team BioTexCom treated was much appreciated. I finalized my decision and went for surrogacy. Now I have a complete and healthy family. I would definitely suggest you to cure your problem by following their procedure. Much love. 13 cristina4
1/1/2018
Well, Dear! I think you're not alone. I also have witnessed same types of dreams, ideas, and depression. But, I think you should be strong and move forward with a plan. I've myself moved forward with a plan of having an IVF. I've even booked for this upcoming year for this Biotexcom clinic. I've researched well for the process. I think you should also try a plan. It will really help you to change your life. 14 sasha54
1/10/2018
"I used to cry every night when I found my infertility. One of my colleagues suggested me about surrogacy. I am sorry for your loss. It is the most heartbreaking condition of any women who are not able to get pregnant. I can feel that you really need a lot of love and support. I am here for you dear. Feel free to ask me anything related this. " 15 tinaopal
1/10/2018
"I used to cry every night when I found my infertility. One of my colleagues suggested me about surrogacy. I am sorry for your loss. It is the most heartbreaking condition of any women who are not able to get pregnant. I can feel that you really need a lot of love and support. I am here for you dear. Feel free to ask me anything related this. " 15 tinaopal
1/10/2018
You are not alone with your infertility problem. But let me ask you a question. Have you consulted the fertility specialist? I believe thereís a reason for your infertility. If you figure out the reason you will find the solution. It is obvious. So, instead of crying you should start doing something to change your life. Every woman has a chance to become a mother. You are not an exception. Medicine is doing everything possible to help women like you. Have you tried any kind of treatment? What about IVF or surrogacy? Have you been thinking of these options? After the first delivery I was told that I would never get pregnant again. I was shocked but I didnít want to believe that it was true. I promised my husband that we would keep trying. We consulted a lot of specialists. After the examinations at BioTexCom medical center we were offered to enter their surrogacy program. We agreed and the process started. In a couple of months we found out that our surrogate got pregnant. It was a real surprise for me. Actually, I didnít believe that surrogacy really works. Now I know that I was wrong. Iím very glad that we did it. Our baby is the result of our love. The clinic looks very modern. There are a lot of couples, which are looking for help. I believe they all get what they want. All doctors are really qualified. They help every single couple to do everything in the right way. Donít lose hope, dear. 16 amazingbear
1/12/2018
Hello there. How are feeling today? I hope you are better than yesterday. I am very sorry to read about your condition. I know; it is not easy to come to the terms of not being able to conceive. A women; no matter the age; has the ultimate dream of having their own baby. The feeling when you are informed you cannot conceive; Is nothing but hopelessness. It seems you have no hope to live. No reason to breath. I know this. I am very sorry you have to go through as well. Just relax okay. Everything will be fine. You will have a baby. You will be happy. You will be a mother. Did you consult a doctor? What had they said about your fertility condition? Look, if you cannot achieve pregnancy through an IVF treatment, opt for surrogacy. I hope it hard to comprehend this; but you have to decide whether you want a baby or not? I am sure; you will have the answer. Let me ask you: which clinic have you opted for IVF or Surrogacy process? I know a clinic where someone I know had undergone surrogacy process. This name had been on several forums. Clinic is ďBioTexComĒ. The one person I am talking was very satisfied with clinic. You can do some research on your part as well. I am attaching a link as well. You can watch it as well. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA. Nancy!! 17 Nancy
1/20/2018
Hi, I am sorry for you. You should undergo proper fertility check up. I myself went to clinic named biotex in Ukarine for surrogacy. My procedure is in process. You should not lose hope and go for it. This will really help you. They will let you know the actual problem and treatment too. Wishing you good luck. 18 Kato
1/20/2018
Hold on, MaryJean. It will not do you well to shed tears so much that you say things like that. Like what did you mean by saying that "you have no more tears"? I have heard that only in baby's shampoo ads. *giggles* Well, I don't mean to embarrass you here. I was only trying to lighten up things a bit for you. You are so depressed that logic ceased to comply with your senses. You still need reasoning to make decisions for yourself. What will you be doing next? Has anyone suggested you this alternative? (Follow the link) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA I wish you all the good things in life. Love xx 19 Opal
1/23/2018
What is the reason of your infertility, dear? Have you already visited the fertility specialist? You have to go through all the necessary examinations to make sure that you are unable to get pregnant. I wasted 10 years ttc. We tried a lot of medical treatments. Weíve gone through 3 rounds of IVF. Unfortunately, nothing helped us to conceive. But Iím glad that we found our surrogacy program. We entered it 4 months ago. Our surrogate is 3 months pregnant at the moment. It makes me very happy. We will see our little baby in 6 months. I think you can do the same. If your doctor is sure that you canít conceive, you can try the surrogacy. It works, dear. Girls above are absolutely right. I join all the recommendations. Choose a good reproduction center. They will help you to do everything in the right way. The whole process is pretty simple. Just believe in positive result. Iím sure your relatives will support you. You have to become a mother, dear. Kids change our lives! Thatís why you have to do everything possible to find the solution to your infertility issue. Modern medicine makes it possible. Just donít give up. For the last 4 months I met a lot of couples, which are going through the surrogacy. They all are happy with the program. So, why not to try it out. Go ahead! 20 Jake
2/5/2018
Hello! I understand that it is very difficult for you now. But your tears will not help you, you need to act. It seems to me that you feel sorry for yourself and you even like it! Yes exactly! It seems to me that you want to get support and help from your family, but you do not get it. And from this you regret yourself even more. But you can not do this, you are doing wrong. You need to start acting despite your fears, insecurities, loneliness. Do not feel sorry for yourself, do not think that you are something worse than other women. You just need to make more effort to get the result. My husband and I went through a surrogate. Yes, we also had doubts, fears, uncertainties. But we never thought that we could calm down and just live feeling sorry for ourselves. This is unacceptable for us. And you should try to change the situation. First, what diagnosis do you have? Have you tried IVF? Maybe you can help the donation of eggs or a surrogate? What options did the doctor offer you? 21 silvi
2/6/2018
Hi Dear I see you just appeared and werenít back never more. I hope everything related to you is alright and you donít visit us because youíre busy or something like that. I wasnít for a while as well but I always turn back as Iím interested in knowing replies and how everyone is doing here while I was absent. You told us very little of your case but maybe it had no needs for that. you just wanted to get inspiration and some of encouragement, I guess. As a woman who struggle for my own happiness for too long and I donít lose my hope I wish you to be stronger then it seems you can. And never, never agree with your fails. You deserve more so go on trying 22 toytoo
3/29/2018
Hello! A lot of women are in the same boat with you, dear. Try not to lose your hope. Depending on your diagnosis you can find the way to solve the problem. What is the reason of your infertility? Have you tried some kind of medical treatment? What is your doctorís opinion on the situation? Is there a chance for you to get pregnant through the IVF? I know a lot of women, who got pregnant right after the IVF. Thatís why you should figure out if it can work for you. You seem to be so frustrated, dear. I completely understand you. I also spent 5 years trying to get pregnant. Unfortunately, I found out that Iím unable to get pregnant. After lots of medical treatments we entered the surrogacy program. It was our best idea ever. The surrogate gave birth to our twin boys. They are genetically related to my husband and me. Everything has happened so fast. I still donít believe it was true. I was so scared. The only person who could calm me down was my husband. He was doing everything possible to help me. And now I can honestly say that he is the best father ever. My story has a happy ending. I believe you can follow my example. You donít have to live childless. Medicine can help you to become a parent. Just donít give up. You will succeed, dear. I wish you all the best. 23 luckymy
4/10/2018
My sweet dear! Iím like nobody can understand your words. I feel for you absolutely. You should understand something in your turn too. Infertility is too overwhelming enemy to be fought down by only your independent efforts. Even if you recognize yourself quit strong, please, donít go alone far in deep. Itís a disease of whole family and even your familyís roots canít sleep well if you have it now. Facing my infertility early on I didnít see understanding from my hubby. I demanded it. I miffed with everyone around who wanted to say bull to me. My first advice is that you must create an atmosphere where you husband will turn into your biggest supporter. Itíll be only harder further without his shelter. More than that, if you decide having treatment abroad your husband will be that one who protects your from foreign environment. It impacts on you harder because now you are vulnerable most of all. 24 Rozental
4/24/2018
Itís so touching dear. And thatís so sad at the same time. I feel for your situation. I can understand your disappointment. My life isnít different. I see my children in dreams. I know how they are looking like. I remember their laugh. I already created the mane. I have one name separately for girl or bay. I have the other names in case of twins. And the special decision is for triplets. Maybe god will send me three babies at once. I waited too long. I wanted them too bad. Iím now doing nothing. yes, I can admit Iím doing nothing but sitting on the forums. We are changing our strategy. My husband supports me like no one before and after. Heís really a great heart. He loves me when Iím high the same as when Iím totally broken. Without him Iím nothing. our future goal is surrogacy. We plan our budget and steps. We want to have it without mistakes. It must be completely safe journey. Itíll secure our babies are born in safety. Now Iím reading bunch of materials. I read books and blogs. Ukraine is leading so far in my own rating. Iím also pretty a new person on this site. I have been chatting on the other forums. Iím pleased with it. However, Iím not a novice at TTC. I walked a long path before I decided to answer you. Itís not possible to tell it in one post. We were so excited when we decided to have a baby. I knew itíd make us even happier. We didnít know what was waiting for us. The future was full of disappointment. I was ugly to hope. Nothing was going according to our plan. Iím really sorry for time. I feel bad because of many that we wasted. All was in vain. We had 5 IVF cycles. Each of them brought another portion of frustration. Each attempt was a new level of disappointment. We were looking for advice. People supported us. But no one could say whatís wrong with me. I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility. Isnít it weird? As I said it before, thatís just inability of medicine to give you an answer. Now Iím feeling much better. Actually nothing has changed. But we are ready for new decisions. I hope weíll get involved in journey as soon as possible. Itíll bring us a baby or two. Weíre going to become the happiest parent around the world. Donít look back at other people. Read only positive posts. You obviously must be more inspired. I know how itís to be without inspiration. My hubby always encourages me. But often I see he himself needs it more than I. You can find much tips on forums. There are perhaps all possible cases of infertility described on forums. Feel free to read and ask people. As for Ukraine, I canít recommend it yet. I have no my own experience. People tell itís a decent option. The choice depends on you. Donít waste your time. Time is a treasure! Itís better to spend it with your children. Hope we had a very constructive dialogue. Hold on dear! My fingers crossed! 25 elementa
6/20/2018

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