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Hi! I am new on this forum. I am trying to get pregnant for several years. I don't have any hope left that I will succeed. I sometimes think that it is not destined for me to have my child. I want that more then anything but I think I will not have the chance to hold my baby in arms. I don't what I expect from this forum. Maybe just someone who will tell me that it would be fine. Or just someone who will listen what I am going through. I talk to my husband and family. They are there for me but I think that they don't understand me. They don't know how hard it is. I think that someone who is or was in the same situation can better understand it. I am trying to live my life. It's hard and I am crying a lot. I don't have anymore tears. My heart is crying. I often dream about my child and when I wake up there is all gone. 1 MaryJean
10/17/2017
Hi MaryJean! I am so sorry about your condition. I want you to know that you have my support. I would be glad to help you get through this. Do you know what is the cause for your infertility? I think it's better that you know. Mostly because the treatments are different for each case. Sometimes we can defeat this problem with medicaments. Sometimes it is not enough. Then we have to take other measures. Today there are many other ways t get pregnant. Don't be sad. First you talk to your doctor. Try to found out what is the reason why can you get pregnant. If it is something that will not cure any pill try to contact the BioTexCom. It is the clinic in Ukraine. I recommend it to everyone. I don't recommend no one when I am not sure that they are good. For this clinic I am sure because they helped me in my case. 2 IsabellaJ
10/17/2017
Hi there Mary. Many people have been struggling in delivering. I have a friend who had been struggling with getting a child just like you. She spent nearly five years TTC and lastly managed it. I would like to inform you that there are many reasons why people face infertility. Have you seen a doctor yet? do you know the core of your infertility problem? Maybe you are suffering from fibroids or your fallopian tubes were blocked. I would advise you go and see a doctor and see how you can get helped. My friend was suffering from endometriosis and after going to this clinic bio tex, she was helped. It was such a relief holding her first child in her hands. I would tell you not to give up. Many people have been through the same problem and came out winners. If nothing can be done in your case you can try adoption. Many people do not think of adopting maybe of various reasons. But i can assure you that a child is a blessing. All the best dear. 3 Noreen
10/19/2017
hey maryjean i am so sorry for what you are going through.you can count on me you have my fuul support.do you know what is the cause to your infertility?i think you should get to find out so that you can know the way foward their are different medications for different infertility problems also if they do not work their still other ways you can be able to have kids one of them is surrogacy.dont give up friend 4 debbie brown
10/20/2017
I've been there, dear. Infertility is an awful experience for any woman. I know how hard it is to see negative result every single time. But you should stay strong to fight this awful problem. A lot of women face infertility every day. It is very important not to give up. My story started when I was 32. We were ttc for several years but we didn't succeed. That's why we decided to go to the reproduction center to figure out what's happened. My eggs were of poor quality and doctor said that IVF could help us. We tried it three times but it didn't work for us. We were ready to give up but my friend recommended us to go to the adoption center to ask if they could find a newborn for us. Believe it or not but they did it. In 5 months we adopted an amazing baby girl, which was left by her mother. I was very happy. I have never been thinking of adoption. But now I love our princess like as she is ours. Now she is 4 years old and we are ready to go for one more baby. My husband said that we should try the surrogacy. We have chosen the reproduction center and did all the tests. It didn't take much time to finish all the preparations. An agreement was signed and the embryo was transferred. Everything happened so fast, you can't even imagine. My husband took care of all details. So, our surrogate is 3 months pregnant now. I still can't believe that we will have our biological baby in 6 months. This is miracle. Modern medicine is so powerful. I think you should discuss this option with your husband. Stop crying! It's time to do something. Do you want to be a mom or not??? 5 LindaLL
10/22/2017
Hi Mary Jean, I hope you are doing fine. I really felt bad after reading your post. I know how it feels to not to become a mother. Have you consulted the doctor? If yes, what is the reason for not being able to conceive? Please do not lose hope, as there will be definitely a way out. Please do not cry and do not stress yourself. I hope that you have your baby soon. 6 Quebec
10/27/2017
"I can relate to how you must be feeling. It's a pain...painful period in a woman's life. I remember when I was hearing the same news from every specialist in the country, I used to cry my lungs out by the time my husband would take me back home. Nights and days are equally sad. But by the age of 28, I met this woman who guided me about the revolutionary progress that the medical science has made in the last decade. She made me aware of the options I had. I thought adoption is the only option I will ever have, having a biological (my own child) seemed like a dream, but boy oh boy, was I not amazed to find out that, technically (or I'd rather say logically). There is no difference in giving birth to a child by yourself or taking services of reproduction centers. If you haven't already, I highly recommend that you explore the options available to you. Because I have experienced it myself, I, from all the options, had chosen surrogacy and will not make a different choice if I have to make a choice... again... ever!" 7 sofogaqill
10/29/2017
Hello, Emiraven, I hope to find you to the best of your health. I am really glad to know that you have successfully become a mother. Your story will be a source of inspiration for many other women who are suffering from infertility. I know it is hard to accept that you are suffering from infertility. However, if you are courageous then you definitely find a way out. I used to cry every night when I found my infertility. One of my colleagues suggested me about surrogacy and now I have a 2-year-old baby girl 8 hyppicafev
10/31/2017
Hello Mary. You have come to the right platform to gain some sympathy and support. Women over here are like a family to each other because they understand each otherís feelings. It is very hard for any woman who comes to know that she cannot be a mother ever in her life. Children are the most important thing for a woman after she is married. I can understand your feelings completely because I am also going through the same difficult and unhappy phase of my life. I am not infertile but my heart disease does not let me have a baby. I used to cry a lot and feel isolated before I joined this forum. Thatís good even if your family listens to you. I have seen families who do not even listen to the infertile women. Donít be so disappointed Marry. You can still become a mother. I think you have not heard about surrogacy. You can become a mother through surrogacy. In this process, the clinic will take your eggs and your husbandís egg to form an embryo and then that embryo will be implanted in the surrogate motherís womb who will carry your child. You donít need to worry at all even if you cannot donate eggs. There is a clinic that can also arrange the egg donor for you. Tell about surrogacy to your husband and your family. They will definitely agree to it and you will become a mother of your own child. 9 sofogaqill
10/31/2017
Hi dear. I am sorry for your loss. It is the most heartbreaking condition of any women who are not able to get pregnant. I can feel that you really need a lot of love and support. I am here for you dear. You donít need to worry anymore. You will get a lot of useful experiences and suggestions over here. There are almost 20% women in the world who are facing the infertility issues. So you are not alone in this. We all are with you. This is not the end of your life. There is a lot much left in your life. You just need to focus on the solution for your problem and hope for the best. I am also not able to get pregnant. I was diagnosed with a heart disease after the first year of my marriage. It also tore me apart and I thought that nothing is left for me. But then I decided to move on because there is a reason for my existence and I have to make my existence count. I searched for different solutions for related to infertility and mu condition and the most promising and comforting process I had found was surrogacy. It is a process in through which any infertile women can become a mother. Even If you can produce eggs or not. There is a clinic in Ukraine that can arrange egg donors also for the patient. Your egg and your husbandís sperm will be taken to from an embryo. That embryo will be implanted in the surrogate mother. The woman who will carry your child. It takes almost 3 months to the clinic to find a surrogate mother of your match and then after following 9 months you will have your baby. Look, there is still a lot of hope. So consider my suggestion and talk to your husband about it. 10 eceppisa
10/31/2017

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