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Hey everyone! I am Ashley from NewYork and I am a practicing dentist by occupation. I got married in the year 2010. Since then I have been TTC. When ever I had missed a cycle and took the home based test, it always turned out to be negative. Multiple failures like these forced me to go in to depression. Furthermore, I had isolated myself completely. The urge of being a mother grew stronger and stronger and I just couldn't get over it. At first I wasnt ready for a checkup but my husband somehow convinced me. Upon examination and a couple of tests it was revealed that I have blocked fallopian tubes which were chronic and beyond repair. I was devasted when I heard this news. I have lost all hopes now. Seems like the wish of being called as mommy will remain ungranted forever. I can't even think about adoption because it is un acceptable in my family. My OB has striclty forbidden me for any sort of fertility treatments since it will harm my body and there are no chances of success rates .Have any one of you experienced the same issue as mine? If so, how did you overcome with it? 1 Ashbrown
10/16/2017
Hi Ashley, I have been through the same situation as yours. I was diagnosed with heart valve disease immediately after my marriage. The valve of my heart stopped closing properly. Due to this, blood started to flow in a backward direction. My heart became weak to function properly. My doctor told me to not TTC. Otherwise, it could have been dangerous for me. I was afraid that my husband would leave me. However, he became my major strength. He stayed by my side each time I needed him. He took me out of depression and now with the passage of time, I feel better. Do not lose hope my dear. You can opt for surrogacy. Surrogate mother will carry your child. You will not have to go for fertility treatments. I hope your family will agree upon this. 2 adney
10/16/2017
Hey Ashley. I hope you are fine. Itís ANNA h here. I am from NEW YORK. I know it is very stressful and heartbreaking phase of your life.SO DONíT worry Ashley every problem has a solution. Every woman wants to have children. But when she is not able to do so, she automatically loses all hope and gets upset. The same has happened in your case. You need to be strong for your husband and your family Keep consulting your doctor and do whatever the doctor tells you. you take second opinion for this issue i advice you Donít lose hope you fight with this disease and for happy life. The most useful information about the adequacy of your menstrual cycle and your ovulation can be learned at home via OPKs or LH dipsticks.This simple home method for determining when you ovulate has many advantages over the basal body temperature thermometer and cervical mucus testing. By using the LH dipstick, you can tell the day before you are going to ovulate. However, saving it all up and abstaining from sex until just before ovulation has been shown to have very little advantage for most couples.ashley this is way to check LH dipstick tests do not give you the exact quantitative level of LH in your blood, but rather turn a certain color on the day that your LH surges to a high level. If you do this dipstick testing every morning, the test will be negative until the day of your LH surge.so be carefully are these steps perfroming and the basal body temperature thermometer and cervical mucus testing. 3 ANNA h
10/17/2017
Hey Ashley! I hope that you are fine. Sorry to read about your problem. I am really sad after reading your case. Most of the ladies in the world are suffered from these kind problems. Donít be disappointed hope for best. I also have some problem due to which I cannot become a mother. Once due to car accident I had hysterectomy done to my uterus. After this doctor told me that I could not become a mother. I was disappointed after listening about it. Because at that time me and my husband were newly married couple. Every women wants to become mother the same is with me. So, I used much medicines and tried other treatments but still I cannot get pregnant. Now some days ago my physician told me about surrogacy. Surrogacy is the process in which surrogate mother get eggs from you and give birth to your child. You will not have to go for delivery. Now I am hoping for my child after listening about this treatment. I must say that you should also consider this process. May you have baby soon. I am hoping for best now. 4 Avanoah
10/17/2017
hello Ashley! dear don't be upset. i have gone through same situation few years back.my Fallopian tubes were blocked at that point i was dying to be a mother.it was very heart breaking for me.i felt totally devastated,when i read about you a flash came across my mind about the stress and the tough time span i have gone through.but my husband and my family were very supportive in this matter.a friend of mine suggested me a surrogacy clinic which was of great help.now i am a mother of a beautiful angle and spending a cheerful life 5 saira
10/17/2017
Hello Ashley! Sorry to read about your problem. My name is Isabel. I am 40 years old. I know it is very stressful and heartbreaking phase of your life. So donít worry every problem has a solution. I am also suffering from infertility. I had cancer in my early age and lost my ovaries. Due to which I cannot conceive. But dear there is always hope you can go for treatment. Donít lose hope there is always a solution. a friend of mine suggested me a surrogacy clinic which was of great help. Do pay a visit I hope you will get a solution for this. My issue is something like more than worst I just lost my ovaries. But I always had a wish to have a baby. I wish you good luck with your treatment and donít lose hope dearly you will find a solution. 6 Isabel
10/17/2017
hi ashley i feel so sad and i am so sorry for what your going through dear,are you sure you wouldnt want to try other ways?i think you should think about it surrogacy would work if you cannot try adoption.i know it is every womans dream to have their own kids but i think you should think about it girl.am wishing you all best and please try be positive. 7 debbie brown
10/20/2017
Hi ASH! I just read your story. My thoughts are with you. I realize how it really feels like. Well, your OB is right because he understands your situation.You shouldn't go for treatments because your health is the more important factor. Even if you want to raise or give the birth child. Well, surrogacy is also another option for you, which can help you out of it. Discuss it with your family take a step forward and you can become a mother of a child. 8 mubippery
10/29/2017
Listen! Honey don't take this hard on yourself. I know it the worst time you're going through but it's not in everyone's life. There are a lot of people like you. Try consulting your doctors regarding treatments. If still thinks don't work out? It's not the end of the end of the world. You can go for adoption or use your husband's sperm for surrogacy can be an option...Just stay calm and go with the flow patiently! I wish things to turn out good on your side. 9 kafynnujo
10/29/2017

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