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I have been facing infertility issue from last year. I consulted with the doctors about it and figured out that I had some issues such as a change in periods and falling down on emotions. L have no idea what the hell happen but infertility is bad. It's been four years to my marriage. I am a 33-year-old woman living in an Australia. I am still discovering the meaning of life. It's good to have a baby who fulfills your life but it seems everything wrong happen to me. I just want to get out of everything and want to figure out the way to get a baby. 1 melisaadams
8/22/2017
So sorry to hear your story. I can feel your pain, it's really painful to not to become a mother. Well, there are more than one ways actually. Have you heard or read about surrogacy? or adoption? or both? If no then, I suggest you read and search about it. You may find it useful. But before discussing it you should visit a clinic. That way, you will know what's the problem? either the problem is in or with you or with your husband? I know the joy of becoming a parent. And also the problems faced by the couples who were and are unable to become parents. It should be best if you discuss it with your husband and the closest friend. Also if possible read some articles as well. I am sure you will become a very good mom in the coming future. Best regards. 2 Cyrell
8/23/2017
Hello. It's so sad that you can't get pregnant. I'm a happy mother of two amazing boys and I can say it's a great pleasure. But I also know what is it being infertile. My sister and her husband were suffering because of infertility for 6 years. And, you know, they found the solution. Now they are amazing parents of 2 years old girl. She is an adopted kid but they love her so much. I was helping them when they were visiting different adoption centers and I know their feelings. The kids situation is a real tragedy nowadays. There are so many kids which dream to find their loving family. I believe you can become one of those loving Moms! You just have to be brave enough to adopt a baby. It's a great responsibility. But it is worth trying! Now they dream about one more kid. I'm not sure if they are going to adopt. We've heard a lot of good recommendations about surrogacy. So, we are going to make a research! 3 LindaLL
8/28/2017
Hi, Melisa. Please, don't give up. Infertility seems to become more and more popular disease nowadays. But I also know that medicine and science rapidly develop. There are a lot of infertile couples which realized their dream to become parents. I know that you are gonna become one of them. Talk to your husband, ask him to help you with this problem. If he wants to become a father he should do his best. There are a lot of modern reproduction centers which help infertile couples to get a baby. I've heard that the best one is located in Ukraine. You can easily contact them and ask for more details. Discuss these details with your husband. If there's no way to treat your disease, you can use the help of the surrogate mother. You shouldn't be afraid that some unknown woman will give birth to your baby. You will be the biological parents of this baby. She will not even be mentioned in the birth certificate. Anyway, does it really matter in what way was your baby born? No one will never find out this information. You will be the only loving parents of this kid. I think you should try it. This can be your only chance to become parents. So why not to use it? Just make sure that your eggs are still ok. The doctors will make all the necessary examinations. After you make sure that you and your husband are ok, they will choose the surrogate for you. She will also have to pass a lot of tests. Another option for you is adoption. I've always dreamed to have an adopted kid. But it takes too much time to find an appropriate baby. So, you decide. You and your husband, of course. 4 AmandaR
9/7/2017
Hi, I am Agnes. I am new in this group. I am 25 years old and trying every method to become a mother. When I joined here I have seen that I am not alone in this journey. Many couples are suffering from same infertility issues. This was really depressing for me as well. I was the adopted child of my parents. I want to be a mother. I got married two years ago. There is no hope till now. I have researched on surrogacy clinics are they good? Please if any one has any experience let me know. Also, I want to know about legal aspects of surrogacy. 5 AgnesHanna
9/9/2017
I am in the same situation as yours. I am much depressed with this problem. I am 25 years old. I had a problem of PCOS before marriage. I was taking full treatment and doctor declares me okay when I was going to marry. Now when 2 years passed I still do not have any hope for having a baby. I am really depressed with this issue. I have tried almost everything in two months. I have tried IVF but this method was also failed for me. My husband told me about surrogacy. This is a secure method for having a baby according to him. What should I do, please give me a recommendation? I am researching on clinics related to surrogacy also. 6 AgnesHanna
9/9/2017
Hi Really sad to know about your issue. I would suggest you to not worry about it and be at ease. I have also been married for 6 years now and do not have a baby yet. I have the problem of PCOS and have consulted my doctor several times. 7 Neha5
9/13/2017
One suggestion is that there are a lot of options these days for having a baby. If this is bothering you a lot, you may even explore surrogacy as an option. YOu may read about it. It is completely normal and healthy. 8 Neha5
9/13/2017
Hi dear. I'm sorry about your situation. I understand what you feel. well, sometimes life doesnít go like what we want. There are many things we sometimes do not want to come to us. I know every woman would want to have a child. Every woman wants to get pregnant. But for women who have infertility problems, it's very sad. The chances of getting pregnant for women with infertility problems are very small. It hurts. My sister was having infertility. Already 5 years married without children. She consulted a doctor. Doctor recommend to do IVF. But the bad thing happened, the IVF failed. She was very sad and felt desperate. But after that get some suggestions to do surrogacy. She is currently collecting information about surrogacy. Maybe he will do surrogacy to get the child. She heard there is a good clinic to do surrogacy in Ukraine. In Ukraine surrogacy has been legalized, thereby making it easier to take care of legal issues later on. Be sure you can be a mother. 9 brylia39
9/14/2017
hey take heart so sorry to hear your story,it is every womans dream to have kids and i understand how you feel.i advice you to be strong anddo more tests and you should also know there are other ways for someone to get kids it can be through adoption,surrogacy etc. 10 nelida hafley
9/29/2017
hey melissa i am so sorry for what your going through am sure you would want to try other ways to get a baby if you really want one maybe through surrogacy,adoption.just try 11 debbie brown
10/20/2017
Hi Melissa Adams, life is really very tough life without babies. Donít feel alone and deprived. There will be a way out. All you have to do is not to lose hope. Have not doctors suggested you some medicines for your problem? If yes, are you taking those medicines? I hope you find a way out soon. 12 Nicholson
11/8/2017
Well, if you are already considering an alternative, that's a good thing. Then you might as well have at least heard about Surrogacy. You would make an ideal candidate and the success probability would be pretty high. My SIL had a somewhat similar situation, she had tilted uterus. She opted for Surrogacy when she turned 39. Doctors told her that the ideal age is (max) 35. She had luck and was able to donate an egg and so has a surrogate baby boy now, still, I think it's better to not risk your odds and go for it before it gets too late. 13 Whitney
11/8/2017
Well, if you are already considering an alternative, that's a good thing. Then you might as well have at least heard about Surrogacy. You would make an ideal candidate and the success probability would be pretty high. My SIL had a somewhat similar situation, she had tilted uterus. She opted for Surrogacy when she turned 39. Doctors told her that the ideal age is (max) 35. She had luck and was able to donate an egg and so has a surrogate baby boy now, still, I think it's better to not risk your odds and go for it before it gets too late. 13 Whitney
11/8/2017
" Hey melisa. I am glad to know you are discovering the meaning of your life. Feels like you are a very sensible and mature woman. I totally agree with you that having a baby just fulfils your life. It gives you a purpose and a reason to live. Donít be disappointed dear. Itís been just four years to your marriage. You still have a long life ahead. And infertility cannot keep you from having a baby. You can still have a baby by Surrogacy. I have a friend who didnít have a baby after even 6 years of marriage. She and her husband were very disappointed and had almost given up. But then they got to know about Surrogacy and today they have a two year old boy. " 14 RohmaQ
11/20/2017

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