Ghosts of the past

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When I think about my past I donít recognize myself in a girl I used to be. My story is probably a bit familiar to some of you. Divorced parents. Death of the only person who cared about you, in my case, itís my grandma. Difficult teenage years. Parties, alcohol, smoking, drugs, unprotected sex. Each day was alike. I had 2 abortions, the first one I had when I was 15. I hardly thought about my future, how it would look like if I donít stop, it wasnít important for me. I had a big hole inside and nothing could fulfill that emptiness. Then one day changed my whole life. No, I didnít get up one day with the decision to change because what I do is wrong. It would have been nice, but my way was different and more realistic. People can change only when they see that there is no other choice. And I had really life or death decision to make. I had a drug overdose when I was 16 and doctors barely saved me. My whole life flashed before my eyes and I understood that I donít want this life anymore and that I want to change it. I desperately asked for help and was lucky enough to get it. I had changed my behavior, habits, circle of friends, Iíd started to study better, or letís say just to study. Iíve entered the college and got married with a wonderful man later. I would have forgotten all of what Iíve wrote above, but one thing doesnít let me to do it. I canít have children. My uterine got severe damage during my second abortion. I had 4 surgeries, but it got scarred again. I have my periods (however, not constant), so I can conceive, but it always ends with a miscarriage. Iím 34, my husband is 39 and we are desperate to have children. I had a serious nervous breakdown after my last miscarriage and I think I canít survive another one. 1 Mirandi
8/9/2017
Hey dear. Oh I can understand your situation dear. Everyone must have a dark side in his life. The past is learning in life to make us better now. As bad as any of that past if we want to change for the better, it will not be a problem. I just wanted to give a little advice. I hope this can help you. I think surrogacy is a good choice. Try going to the clinic and consulting with an obstetrician. Doctors better understand what really happened. I see many people can get children through surrogacy. Most have difficulty conceiving problems due to infertility or unknown problems. Currently there are many clinics that can do surrogacy with legal. Do not be sad and do not give up. Consult your doctor. Send a big hug to you. 2 elka30
9/13/2017
Hi, I am new in this forum. I can understand what you are facing. Maximum infertile or problematic couples are having same feelings. I am also infertile. I got married 5 years ago. Now I am 30 years old. I was the adopted child of my parents. They never disclose this to me. But I want to become a mother since my childhood. My husband loves children too. But now we are helpless. We have a strong love marriage. We need your prayers. 3 Daisyjoe
9/15/2017
Hi dear. I know what you feel. The past is the teacher in our lives. Past the past we become better people today. No one wants infertility. Every couple wants a child in his little family. Lucky this time we are in modern times. All the technology is growing rapidly. Not to mention also with medical technology. There are currently several ways infertility couples can have to have children. There is IVF or surrogacy. Besides that many fertility treatments you can take. There is a clinic who has experienced in the field of infertility. Clinics that have professional personnel and have sophisticated tools. A lot of infertility couples who have managed to get children through IVF or surrogacy. Maybe you can have a child of that way. you have to try it. Keep the spirit dear. Wishing the best for you. 4 brylia39
9/27/2017
Hello there. How are you? I am so sorry to read about your condition. I can relate to your problem. I know what you are going through. I am so sorry. I hope you are not alone in this hard time. All I can say is not lose hope. You are worldís strongest creation. Nothing can break you. Though, not be able to conceive is a breaking point of any women; you have to stay strong for yourself and for your family. I had being diagnosed with PCOS few years back. I had 2 m/cís before diagnosed this. They informed me never to conceive or I can die. I was so depressed that I tried to take my own life. Fate has a cruel way to make things work. Many people suggested us fertility treatment. We opted for ďBioTexComĒ. They provided me 2 beautiful babies. I can never thank them enough. I am enclosing a link; you can look at it too. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA. All the best. Nancy!! 5 Nancy
1/22/2018

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