Cruel life :( :(

Cruel life :( :(

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Cruel life :( :(
Grieving a child you never got the chance to meet is absolutely the hardest thing I have ever had to go through. With this loss there are no memories to hold on to help with the griefTwo pink lines, we knew it was true, Sooner than later we would meet you. I yelled for your Daddy, and smiled just so, He stood there in shock and a glorious glow. We made lots of phone calls and shared our great news, I had lots of symptoms and even some clues. Then one day as I was taking out the trash, Something came over me and I knew in a flash. Everything was wrong and I prayed it wasn't so, So I called up your Daddy and said we must go. To the hospital to check on your stats, Waiting so patiently for the results to come back. We were told the bleeding was normal, you were just fine, Worrying uncontrollably because you were mine. Waiting for the doctor seemed to take forever, I guess she just thought she was being so clever. Up on the screen we could see your silhouette, The doctor made a grave face, and I said no, not yet. There is no heartbeat are the words we dreaded most. The tears started to fall and I felt like a ghost. I wanted to run, and I wanted to hide. I wanted you there standing at my side. I long now to hold you and hear your soft cries, Play with your belly and hear your faint sighs. Never will I have the chance to kiss your sweet lips, Wrap your sweet legs around my soft hips. I know you are in Heaven and safe you will always be, But oh, I long to touch the baby I will never seeThe loss of my unborn child is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. By writing this poem it helped me relieve some grief that was bottled inside. I came to this website in hopes of finding something that I can relate toSo quickly you came into our lives, So quickly torn away. Never got the chance to meet you, There's so much I want to say. Where there once was joy and happiness, Is now sadness, guilt, and pain. All these thoughts running through my head, It's enough to drive me insane. 1 sarah017
7/31/2017
One word can describe this: Beautiful. I don't know how believable this sounds but I cried while reading this. Honestly I feel so bad for you. It's sad that people have to go through this. I have been through this. I lost my child in my first IVF attempt. It hurt everywhere. My soul hurt the most though. I saw the world burn... I saw my world burning... There was no water to extinguish the fire! I am sorry for you... Really, I am! I hope that you found what you looked for here. Wish you all the best in the future. You know, you made me ask an old question to my self again. What worse? To have it all and lose it or to never have anything..? 2 toddlerlover
8/4/2017
That is a beautiful poem. I can only imagine the pain of every word. I hope venting out like this helped you. Don't lose hope, my dear. You will have a chance again. We are all here for you. I wish you a speedy recovery from the mental anguish and the physical scars a miscarriage can leave. 3 jawemoty
11/10/2017
Oh dear. I am so sorry to hear that. Your poem is so heart touching. I hope you manage to come to terms with this loss soon. Don't give up. Be strong. You will make it eventually. 4 Webber
11/10/2017
Hello my dear, how are you? No condolences give peace to a motherís heart, I really feel sorry for what you have been too. Life and death is a part of a manís life. We have no control over life and death. Maybe your child is safe from some worst thing? Maybe this world would not suit him regarding his health or future. You and your husband are the strengths of each other. Plan a baby again and you will surely be happy parents if GOD wills. 5 Nicholson
11/10/2017
Hey I hope my words would bring some betterment in your mind state. Life and death are the part of our life. If your child is no more then it might be for his betterment? Maybe he would not have a bright future or maybe he would not have proper functioning of body parts? Try to relax your mind by the positive thoughts and you and your husband should plan a baby again now. And name him the same you thought for the 1st baby.Best of luck to you and your husband. Many prayers for both of you. 6 Hawkeyes
11/10/2017

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