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Finally IVF!! |
| I hit 40 years early this year and it was the most depressing birthday I have ever had. I had no child. Being single and childless isn't easy in some societies, especially at the age of 40! In March I met this amazing guy. He is sterile. He was very kind and understanding and the rest is history. We are considering IVF. We have been referred by hundreds of people to Ukraine. Specifically, BioTexCom. I gather that they have very experience embruologists and fertility doctors. I have read on mutiple platforms that they have also won several awards due to their exempolary performance. We are so eager. I hope that it will be a healthy journey for us. We are worried about any possible side effects of IVF
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Tinashe
7/24/2017 |
| hey there glad to hear that.i think that there are a couple of side effects like Passing a small amount of fluid (may be clear or blood-tinged) after the procedure
Mild cramping
Mild bloating
but dont worry am sure everything will workout just fine.
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mellisa wheeler
8/31/2017 |
| Hello and welcome at this online platform. I want to appreciate your confidence to choose this right destination to share your problem to get permanent solution of your problem on behalf of my personal life experience to handle this horrible situation in short time period. You should not lose hope. You can defeat this infertility problem with positive affirmation and positive attitude toward life. I am one of the lucky women who defeated infertility problem at age of through IVF test tube baby treatment. I want to express kind heart thanks to God to understand my problem and provide the best in class treatment to defeat infertility problem in easy and effective way. Now I am happy and healthy enjoying baby gift in my life that fulfills my whole life with brightness. It is your turn to enjoy maximum benefit to overcome your problem with baby gift in your life.
It is very horrible to remember those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to infertility problem. You should be very informative to understand the IVF test tube baby treatment that is completely based on medical research test that has high success rate. You need not panic about new medical term. It is most popular and reliable treatment to defeat infertility problem all over the world. This becomes boon for infertile women to defeat infertility problem to achieve perfection in motherhood. You should understand the importance of your body signal very well to overcome any type of problem related pregnancy in advance. You should maintain high hemoglobin level in your blood to get easy pregnancy. You can choose surrogacy to avoid multiple miscarriage problems to get healthy baby gift in your life.
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deepieku
9/1/2017 |
| Hello,dear. I'm really happy for you. You are definitelly happy woman to meet a man of your dream. It's amazing that you decided to become parents. I know about surrogacy because my sister has a kid which was born with the help of the surrogate mother. They have found a great medical center in Ukraine, the doctors there are amazing. But, of course, they had several problems.
First of all, think twice choosing the lawyer. He should be very smart and professional. The contract should be created very carefully! Your safety depends on this contract.
Also, make sure that you are ready to let other woman give birth to your baby. You should be psychologically ready. Actually it is very difficult. You will see her stomack getting bigger and bigger. But you should understand that this is gonna be your baby!
If you have already chosen the reproduction center, make sure that you like your doctor. You will spend 9 months with him and your surrogate))
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LindaLL
9/3/2017 |
| Hello dear. I am glad to hear it. Yes you are right, biotexcom in Ukraine is the right choice to do IVF and surrogacy. It is a very nice clinic. The staff are experienced in the field. Doctors use the best techniques and methods with the help they get positive results from the IVF program. Multilanguage staff makes clients stay in the clinic more convenient. Many couples have successfully done IVF there. My sister did IVF there too. Now she and her husband have had a funny baby through IVF. It makes their little family more complete and happy. You and your husband can also do IVF on the spot. Find as many related information as possible. When you are absolutely sure to do it, you can go there. You also have the same chance to have a baby. Success for you.
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brylia39
9/11/2017 |
| Hello, I'm really sorry about your current situation. I think IVF will be the best option for you.
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Shannon_erwan
9/14/2017 |
| Hello, dear. I'm really happy for you. You have a wonderful husband. It's amazing that you decided to become parents. I know about surrogacy because my sister has a kid which was born with the help of the surrogate mother. Don’t worry about side effects. My sister did IVF and now she has a normal life. Go on and follow your dream.
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asnat
9/14/2017 |
| Hi dear. I am going to tell you about my experience on IVF here. We have done IVF (long protocol) and frozen embryo transfer and I can honestly say the side-effects were pretty minimal for me, although everyone is different. The down-reg drug (nasal spray in my case) was fine, the stemming drugs (injections) were a doddle to do and the only side effect I had was a little bloating. Then there's the progesterone (peccaries) which were OK, but a bit grim to use (panty liners will become your friend!) and they're the only ones I really noticed in terms of side effects, as I was a bit constipated and bloated - both eased with decent diet and drinking about 3l of water a day. You may feel a bit tired, but I really don't remember feeling anything too bad or concerning. On FET I found the estrogen wasn't great on our first go - I would feel quite sick and had a few headaches. But on our second go, I felt fine again - even though the drugs were exactly the same! Then you have the delightful progesterone peccaries again! While certain drugs are needed at various stages, there are different kinds of each so talk to your consultant about those available to you. Once you get started on the process it's pretty quick too, so I don't recall being on any particular drug for a long time - certainly not long enough for any of the effects to really bother me to the extent I wished we weren't doing it. However, the FET was certainly more challenging physically. I’d say talk to your consultant about your concerns but don't worry that you'll necessarily have any or many side effects. I hope my story will help to motivate you. Be safe and stay blessed.
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sonamgupta2107
9/16/2017 |
| Wow! It must be a good experience i feel. This clinic has flourished very high in the past few years. Many are there which do not succeed this long. When I had my first one, I remember the clinic offered various packages since i couldn't afford a huge a one. I was overwhelmed by their staff. They were all very pleasing. I recommend this clinic to all the ladies on board. Please go for it.
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Ashbrown
10/11/2017 |
| Hey there. I am glad to see that you have such a positive attitude. Many people get disappointed when they find out their partner is sterile. It is nice to see that you both have decided to accept your situation. Even more praiseworthy is that you have decided to change your fate. IVF is a great option. I am unsure how it will work considering your scenario. I suppose you will need to contact a sperm bank too. Well, either way, I wish you good luck. I am sure the doctors will be able to guide you the best. I too have heard great things about IVF. Do let us know how your experience goes. It could help other couples who are in a similar situation. Good luck!
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Kato
11/7/2017 |
| Hello. Dear, don’t let your age get you down. 40’s the new 30! What with all these modern medications and treatments. The fertility window is now wider than ever. Now, you see women in their 40s and 50s having children. I am glad to see that you have found a good man. I hope he was worth the wait. Now, about IVF. I have heard so many great things about it. I hope it works out in your case too. Children are so important. They make your life complete. Without them, there is like a void. Treatments like IVF and surrogacy help fill this void.
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Zion
11/7/2017 |
| Hi Tinashe. Your story is so inspiring. It shows that just because things are looking down, doesn’t mean they will stay that way. Your 40th birthday was no fun. Despite that, you proved it's not too late. You can chase your dreams at any age. Your partner sounds like a great man. I hope the two of you have a great life ahead of you. Starting a family is a huge decision. I’m sure it's even bigger for you. That is because of your age and him being sterile. IVF sounds like a great idea. Many people seem to be praising the clinic you mentioned. Must be worth a shot. Fingers crossed!
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Webber
11/7/2017 |
| Hi Tinashe. Your story is so inspiring. It shows that just because things are looking down, doesn’t mean they will stay that way. Your 40th birthday was no fun. Despite that, you proved it's not too late. You can chase your dreams at any age. Your partner sounds like a great man. I hope the two of you have a great life ahead of you. Starting a family is a huge decision. I’m sure it's even bigger for you. That is because of your age and him being sterile. IVF sounds like a great idea. Many people seem to be praising the clinic you mentioned. Must be worth a shot. Fingers crossed!
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Webber
11/7/2017 |
| Hello ladies. I can understand what many of you are going through. Infertility. It had seemed like the end of the world to me. After my hysterectomy, I was so depressed. I thought there was no way I could have children. I put off getting married for as long as I could. Until I couldn't run anymore. The depression hit me even harder after that. I then found out about surrogacy. To say that it was a life changer would be an understatement. It was so great to find out that all hope was not lost. I hope IVF works out just as nicely for you. So, that you too can experience the joy that comes with having a child. Good luck!
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Matthews
11/7/2017 |
| First of all congrats on finding the love of your life. You have your soulmate with you then there is no need to be depressed. It's true that life without kids feels aimless. Children add sparkle to one's life. You and your husband have taken the correct decision to complete your family. The clinic I had my experience with is known worldwide for their professional staff and skillful doctors and most important they have the top of the notch facilities. You get all of this at the most amazing prices. Unlike other countries which are charging an exorbitant amount for this procedure. I know many friends who went for surrogacy and IVF to Ukraine and all of them are enjoying their life with their bundle of joy and you can be one of them. You just have to be strong and optimistic.
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Chiseler
11/8/2017 |
| Hi Tinashe! I hope you’re fine. I can realize your problem. I know it is very tough and painful to live alone. But you should not lose hope. We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope because you never know what tomorrow may bring. You can defeat this infertility problem with a positive attitude toward life. I am glad to know that you got a companion of your dream. I appreciate you because you are considering IVF and this is a good step. If you understand that IVF is good for you, then first sensibly judge any clinic before going through the procedure. IVF is never the first step in the treatment of infertility except in cases of complete tubal blockage. The live birth rate for each IVF cycle started is approximately 13-18% for women ages over 40. There are also many other options available for you. Surrogacy is the best option for you. I know about a good clinic that offers surrogacy. This is the best option for you if you want to know about that clinic then it’s my pleasure to share the details with you.
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Lambert
11/8/2017 |
| Hi Tinashe, I hope to find you to the best of your health. I know it is hard to live a life without babies. Children keep you busy. They make the bond between husband and wife stronger. Please do not lose hope. You have to be strong for your man and rest of the family. We can win every battle if we have a positive attitude. Yes, people are referring you right to that clinic. I also got my surrogacy procedure from that clinic. That clinic is not only pocket-friendly but does not compromise on quality too. IVF is a good option. However, I would suggest you go for surrogacy. The success rate of surrogacy is more than IVF or any other infertility treatment. I would recommend you to choose this clinic and go for surrogacy instead of IVF. I wish you best of luck for your future.
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Katherine
11/8/2017 |
| Hello, Tinashe, We are living in the world where technology has taken over. The medical field has progressed so much that there will be definitely a way out. You are not supposed to be hopeless. There are many ways and means to fight against infertility. Don’t worry about your age. I have heard about many women who are in the age of forties and they get pregnant. I am happy to know that your man is an amazing person. I wish you could have celebrated your birthday instead of being depressed. I know depression is not under your control. However, you can stay positive. In your case, IVF is an option that you must opt for. The clinic you are talking about is really a remarkable one. I got my surrogacy procedure from there. I was unable to conceive. My husband, I chose that clinic for our surrogacy procedure. I was really satisfied with their cost and quality service.
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Nicholson
11/8/2017 |
| Hello Tinashe. I am so glad for you. There is a ray of hope. It is a gift from God to have an extremely adoring and supporting spouse. I praise you on your choice for IVF. However, I have not heard much about IVF. I was unable to carry a baby as I was suffering from heart valve disease. My cardiologist advised me to not to get pregnant. I was so upset about it. At that time, I came to know about surrogacy. I read about the high success rate of it. I went through the surrogacy procedure. I am now a mother of a baby. This would not have been possible without surrogacy. I think you should go for IVF instead of surrogacy. I am recommending it to you because of my personal experience.
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Hawkeyes
11/8/2017 |
| Hello, Tinashe, Happy belated birthday, my dear. One should not be sad on her or his birthday. I agree that it is not easy to be childless. However, it does not mean that you lose hope. You should always be courageous, no matter what. One should always stay positive. A positive attitude is a key to success. I am glad that you have an amazing man. Like so many other people, I would also refer you to the same clinic. Yes, you have read correctly about them. I was a client of that clinic. I had a wonderful experience with them. They provided us with the quality doctors. It is due to that clinic and surrogacy procedure that I was able to have my own baby.
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Matilda
11/8/2017 |
| Hey Tinashe. I am so happy for you that final you have found some hope. It’s always a blessing to have a very loving and supporting husband. I congratulate you on your decision for IVF. Well, I have not heard much about IVF and it's success stories because it has never been my concern. I am totally fertile but the problem with me in giving birth to a baby is my heart disease. I also want to have my own children and complete my family. That is why I kept on looking for some other way to become a mother. I found the process of surrogacy as a very useful option. I am telling you about it because your mind can change any time about IVF and you should have another option in your hand. It is a process that allows every infertile woman have their own children. You will not need to have any sort of surgery because you will not have to carry your child. It will be a surrogate mother that will carry your child. I have heard a lot of success stories about it. I am willing to go for it very soon. You should also look into it if you want to. You will find it useful. Still, my prayers and wishes are with you that you have a successful IVF.
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McCarty
11/8/2017 |
| Welcome to the 40’s dear! You are aging and you need to keep it in mind that you should have your baby soon. The reason is that the menu pause usually starts at the age of 40 or after that. So if you have wanted to have IVF, make it happen soon. After your menopause, all will go in vain. Considering your age as an important factor I have a very useful suggestion for you. I have done a lot of research about different ways to have our own baby. But the most comforting and successful process that I have found until now is surrogacy. You might have heard about it. It is becoming a very common source to have children. I have seen a lot of women that are willing to go for it and many of them already have gone for it. This is the time you have to make a final decision. I am not sure about the negative effects of IVF but I am assured of all the benefits and positive impacts of surrogacy. Without the hustle of any surgery, you can easily complete your family. You don’t even have to wait to conceive after IVF as surrogacy just requires your eggs and your husband’s sperm to start the process. The embryo will be implanted in the surrogate mother and you know the rest of the pregnancy process. So should do some research about surrogacy too. You might find any effects of IVF but you will not find any negative effects related to surrogacy. Well, best of luck for your IVF. I hope it goes well. I just wanted to help.
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McFarland
11/8/2017 |
| Luck you! You have found the love of your life and a way to become a mother as well. You have changed your life a lot. It seems a bit awkward but happy belated birthday. Lol! I have no knowledge about IVF or its side effects but I can guide you with some other way to become a mother. I am not telling you to leave IVF and just consider my suggestion. It’s just an option if you would like to use it anytime. Things have been really difficult for me also because I cannot become a mother. I was diagnosed with a heart disease after my marriage and it gave me the shocking news of never becoming a mother. Well, I have been having my treatment for a past few years. I am still hoping that some miracle will happen. But I am also getting tired of all the medication and tests. That is why I asked my doctor for some other way. She told me about surrogacy. I was really amazed to hear about it. She told me that you can be a biological parent easily with the help of it. She told me that the clinic will take eggs from you and sperm from your husband to form an embryo. That embryo will be implanted in a surrogate mother. You don’t need to take stress if you cannot donate eggs because the clinic can arrange an egg donor for you. See! How comfortable and easy it is. As for now, you have decided for IVF and I hope everything goes well. Best of luck!
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Eliza
11/8/2017 |
| "Hiya! Happy to hear you have found the right fit for yourself. It's okay if he is sterile. Though pregnancy matters the world to women I think a loving husband is also a gift for which we should be thankful. I hope you two see all the happiness in the world together.
There apparently are way too many alternative techniques to have a baby these days, I, however, have only heard about surrogacy (other than, of course, the traditional adoption) and found it to be a miracle. The idea of walking home with your own genetic child should be so comforting. My SIL has just got back from Europe (I think her husband and she also selected Ukraine). She has but good things to tell about her experience.
I remember how sad her days were earlier and now she is so alive.
Is there some kind of a comparison out there between IVF and surrogacy success rates? You should see what are the merits and demerits (if any) of both the options at hand and then decide which one will be right for you guys.
I will be sure to check with her the name of the clinic and get back to you.
I also wish you and your superstar good luck with whatever option you go for.
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Elizabeth
11/8/2017 |
| "Well, hello there!
The good thing is that you have found your HE in life and that's so big of an achievement.
I'll begin with the advantages of IVF. One I think worthwhile to mention here is that mostly the children who are conceived by IVF, there are no long-term problems. Secondly, it is an option to in case you can't conceive naturally. This especially is helpful where ladies have damaged, blocked or missing fallopian tubes.
I think it has not as such side-effects. I only know about a few such as hot flushes, headaches, and nausea. In case you have PCOS, then you will need to be closely monitored for signs of OHSS. Some say that the newborn may have a few birth defects but it's not concrete and not every researcher believes if there is a link.
There's another alternative called surrogacy which seems to be more 'in' these days. I have read that it has very low, often ignorable, risks attached. Give that a thought too.
Wishing you a successful married life!
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Whitney
11/8/2017 |
| "Hi lady,
Happy for you two I am. Throw us a party :)
IVF process increases your risk of certain complications. The most talked about is a multiple births, when more than one embryo is transferred to your uterus. Many folks welcome twins but this increases the chances of a premature baby. Sometimes, babies are born with low birth weight too. It also exposes you to the risk of ectopic pregnancy.
Now, these risks are often ignored by many couples when they first go for this option. However, I think it's best that they are thoroughly discussed with your doctor beforehand. Not that I have to do something with your choice, but why don't you go for surrogacy instead? Everyone says that it's is safer and entails very few risks. If you don't have much info about surrogacy, I can share details. Do consult the experts and only then decide which one would best suit you. GL
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Castillo
11/8/2017 |
| Hello dear. Welcome to the forum. You have made a great choice. I have friends who have done their fertility treatments in that clinic. And the results have been phenomenal.
I hope everything goes well with you and your partner. And that they can have that wanted baby.
It is normal that you are worried about the side effects. Very rarely they happen but it is good that you take them into account. So you can prevent and take into account some type of abnormal signal that your body presents.
Some side effects after IVF may include: When passing a small amount of fluid (may be clear or blood with dyes) after the procedure
Mild cramps
Slight swelling
Constipation
Sensitivity in the breasts
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nickalawad
11/8/2017 |
| Hello, dear. I've heard a lot of positive reviews about BioTexCom. My sister has chosen this clinic for the IVF too. Everything was fine. That's why you made a right choice. Regarding the side effects you shouldn't worry that much. Everything is very individual. There's a huge chance that you will have no side effects. I'm sure you will be fine. As you are 40 already you have to consult your doctor. There's always a chance that IVF will not help. In my case it didn't work, unfortunately. But I didn't give up. I used the help of the surrogate. I'm a happy mother now.
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AmandaRoar
11/8/2017 |
