16 & Shouldnt Be Pregnant !

16 & Shouldnt Be Pregnant !

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16 & Shouldnt Be Pregnant !
Hey Guys. My Name Is Crystal & I'm 16 and Pregnant. I Never Wanted To Be Pregnant At This Age I Was Going To Wait Until After College. Well I'm 7 Months Now ( 30 Weeks On Wednesday) & I'm just Scared. I'm Not with The Baby Father Anymore. He Dumped me To Live his Life & He's 19. I'm Keeping The Baby But Everything is Just Frustrating. And I Hardly have Money For things But I don't Like To Ask Anyone For Anything. I Love Being Independent. I Just Need Some Parenting Tips From Mothers On Here Help Please ! 1 CrystalBanksxo
11/19/2012
Hello Crystal. By now you may be a mother. It is NOT the worst thing in the world, no matter how scared you may be. I'm going to assume that aside from the possible baby, nothing much has changed since you posted your note. First, if the father hasn't contacted you and/or offered financial support, go to the police. Fathers MUST provide financial support to women they get pregnant. Period. If they don't they can go to jail. So go to the police immediately. Also, our society may appear cold and unfeeling, but there are in fact, public agencies to help you. Call Social Services or whatever they're called where you live. These agencies are funded by our taxes and they are there expressly to help you. You didn't mention whether your parents are involved in any way. Assuming you are on good terms with them (I'm talking bottom line, not "oh gee, you took my cell phone away" stuff), or at least one of them, go to them. Decent parents may not always have money but when the chips are down, they will provide the love and acceptance you need. Lay it all out with them and be honest. You might be surprised. If however, they don't give a damn, is there any adult woman in your family you can approach for love and acceptance. I'm not necessarily talking about approval, but I'm talking about people who short of murder and rape, will not turn their back on family. Good luck and keep us posted. Please. 2 runningdog9
1/3/2013

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16 & Shouldnt Be Pregnant !