Pregnant Scared and confussed

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Pregnant Scared and confussed
I'm 24 yrs old. I already have 3 daughters. Ages 7,5, and 2. I am married but my life is weird. I live with my "husband" but we aren't together at the same time. We live our own lives. I ended up pregnant with another man's baby. I was protected but the condom broke. Everyone knows about this and I have no one to reach out to. The baby's father is a BUTT head. (LOSER) My "husband" won't even just tell me what's he's thinking. Which he never did. I'm so lost confussed, scared and I just don't have anyone to talk to. Does anyone have any advice for me. What should I do. 1 youngmama24
7/11/2005
My advise... Life is too short to be unhappy. Give your husband an ultimatium. He should be a husband to you and accept the baby or move on. Your children should always be #1 in your life. Never let a man come between you and your children. Also.. Make sure you receive child support from both men. Good luck... 2 MOM TO BE
7/12/2005
I agree that your children always should come first, no question about it! 3 northern meadow
7/28/2005
Hey! I just found out I'm pregant too and no matter what situation your in, it can be very scary! If I didn't have God in my life, I have no idea where I would be right now. PRAY!!! That's all the advice I have. Sometimes life throws situations in our direction that we can't face on our own. GOD BLESS!!!! 4 marimcalister26
3/16/2006
im am pregnant but im not screard and not confussed but i have questions to ask. ok i told my boyfriend that i want to take a test to find out if im pregnet or not so i took it and i found out that im pregnet but my question is we think that im 2 mouths how big is the baby ? 5 babylover
10/14/2006
For your kids sake, you need to get your life back on track - no matter what they come first. Maybe reach out to a good church - because God never gives you anything you can't handle. Surround yourself with better people. 6 katie0209
11/15/2006
At the risk of others disagreeing... I feel like I should stress that while your children should be VERY important... your husband should be more important. Your kids will grow up and have lives of their own, and move away or stay close by, but you can not have the kind of relationship with your kids that you can with your husband. Obviously, if there is abuse, then that is not acceptable and you need to make sure that you and your children are safe, but if it is a matter of allowing your husband to be the head of the household and live "under" his direction, then I think it takes a very strong person to be able to hold that family together. We all make mistakes and bad choices in life. That's what grace and forgiveness are for. I have just seen too many relationships crumble because one spouse put the children "in between" them and the other. We need to stand united together so we can build strong families and raise great respectful, productive and loving children. I hope you work things out and I wish you the best! 7 butterflie
12/29/2006
hello i dose he know about the new baby? well i think you should think of somthing right? 8 babylover
12/30/2006
Hi there, I just joined, and your post really caught my eye. You sounded so sincere and seem to feel very much the same way that I am, though our situations are somewhat different, but feelings and the babys' fathers reactions very much the same. But I see that it has been a while (7/06) since your post and was just wondering how things had progressed for you since that time. Wishing you well and God Bless you. 9 momma2b
2/2/2007
girl toughen up I had my twins at 20 years old talk about scared!! BUT IM A SURVIOR YOU NEVER EVER PUT YOURSELF INA SITUATION TO GET PREGNANT ITS CALLED THE PILL!! I HOPE YOUR NEW BABY DOESNT SUFFER BECAUSE YOUR CHOICES !Im 25 24 isnt all that young Shame on you !! GET YOUR LIFE TOGTHER ON YOUR OWN GET SOME CONSOLING NO ONE IS PERFECT DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH WORK AND SCARFICE IT TAKES TO HAVE A GOOD MARRIGE GET A Divorce and got on the right path!! FOR YOUR CHILDREN YOU MADE NOW TAKE CARE OF THEM STOP BEING SELFISH FOCUS ON THEM NOT YOU 10 jennv25
3/8/2007
You need to get professional couselling or your children may repeat your mistakes. You need to be a better role model for your kids and get some self-respect. Sounds to me that what little self-confidence you have is coming from the attention of these losers you involve yourself with...get help, you are too young to throw your life away. 11 Mrs. P
3/14/2007
i agree with You butterflie very much. ; its is really hard to stand up and have the baby with out a husband's helping hand. And its even harder to keep the baby when 'Your husband doesn't ever show love to the baby. In some cases its best to give the baby up to adotian. In some cases You can have an open adotian(meaning You get to see the baby grow up, and know him/her). ..i just hope Your husband acualy tells You some item soon how he feels about Your having the baby. IF he doesn't don't asume he is fine, or happy about You having/keeping the baby. It can be to harmful in the long run to believe that and not know for sure how he feels, and thinks about it. 12 Sushi
4/25/2007
Mrs P is right. Your children could find them self in the same situations as You. A parent's rolemodaling is so hard to replace. and osme times even when the child grows up and has their own life thay can't forget or over look everything their parents tought them. .. 13 Sushi
4/25/2007
holy jenny 25, lighten up a bit, your y response is a little much don;t you think? she doesn't need another mother to yell at her, she needs advice, if you can't give it, then get off the forum. she is a young girl with 3 kids. and yes, 24 is young, i don;t know if you remember that age, but its scary. I am 27, pregnant, and TERRIFIED! if she has questions about her life, let her ask them. 14 kristy
5/22/2007
There is nothing wrong with Fousing on Your self. like Jenny has said. A mother who doesn't ever think of her self is showing her children that a mother isn't as inportant as other things in thei world. and some times may even hurt the way thay see their mother. I really am glad to be able to post some words to You. and i hope You find them very comferting. As with many other weman's comints to You. 15 Sushi
6/27/2007
I have 2 kids. Their ages are 8 and 5. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant again. We have had 2 miscarriages in the process. I recently found out I am 6 wks pregnant. I wanted another baby so bad, but now I don't know. Everytime I see a baby, I think OH MY GOSH! My life is over. Is that normal? What's wrong with me? 16 babydoll27
5/16/2008
I would recommend that you start to keep a gratitude journal. You may have heard about this on Oprah. Take it from me, it really works. Your will be amazed at how quickly your life improves once you slow down and appreciate and express gratitude for the blessings you already have instead of focusing on your problems. Everyday, try to think of and write down even the smallest thinks that your are grateful for. Write down and feel sincere gratitude for the beautiful things in life. I know you can think of at least 3 of them and soon 4 of them. Notice and appreciate all the little things they do that put a smile on your face. It may be difficult to feel happy and grateful now but as your force yourself to feel even a small amount of gratitude each day, your life will turn around. I wish all the best and I know it this will work for you. Good luck! 17 OurBabyBedding
6/22/2008
i think that you just need to sit down and talk to your husband and tell him how you feel and ask him to tell you if need be take the kids out of the house so you can be alone with him cause there will be times when you will fight and you dont want your kids to hear this. ask if he loves you or is he just here for the sake of the kids and tell him if you havnt already that you sliped up and got pregnant with another mans baby cause i dont know if you are planing on doing this but if you trick him into thinking it is his baby you are in for a very bad heart break for you and for your kid if you too cant get on with life then i recomend that you take a break or you will say things that you dont really mean in the mean time get payment from the baby's father that you are having before he does a runner on you good luck with what happens and i hope it all turns out for you in the end weather you are left holding the baby and looking after your 4 children on your own 18 nikki2kids
8/10/2008
Hah! Hey there! I deliberately came to old threads. Thereís a little but at least a chance. Someone can turn back after ages. This story was the first that attracted my attention. It drew it through all others. Iím laughing like a pig. ! Oh. Mommy! It made my day. You should reread it asap. Iím sorry if it was really a tough complication. Today I think you live another life. The stories that tell us about sudden pregnancy please me even more then stories of success. There are too many such stories for me to pass by. Iím in and Iím going to collect them in special little notebook. 19 toytoo
5/18/2018

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