I want a baby!!

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I want a baby!!
I am 12 years old and I have been wanting a baby, I have been having feelings which I know now are hormones but I would have sex and I would have a baby. But I know my mum would probably kill me because I've asked her before. What should I do!? Xx 1 12GirlXx
10/1/2010
Plus I would call her Gillian Shona. I really want to have a girl baby when I am 14. I want my mum to be happy for me and my whole family to support me. I want all of my friends, teachers, the father and his whole family to support me. But you can't just wish for happy endings! I need help. I am 12 and I want a baby!!!! Xx <3 2 12GirlXx
10/1/2010
Wow, 12 and wanting a baby? I'm 26 and about to have my second daughter. Its not as easy as you may think. I couldn't imagine having a baby at 12 or even 14 for that matter. A mother in high school? You'd be giving up a lot of things in life, things that only get one chance to experience. You have many years ahead of you to experience the birth of a child, don't rob yourself of your own childhood. High school are the fun years, you date, go out with friends, go to the movies, hang out at the mall, go to parties, school dances, and so much more. At your age you'd be depending on a lot of people to help you raise that child. You have several years before you can even drive, babies need to see the doctor often and if an emergency were to arise you wouldn't be able to drive yourself. They are expensive, doctor bills, food, formula, clothes, toys. And I'm sure that you would want to give your baby the best that life has to offer, which would be extremely hard without a job, and years before you could even apply for one. And hate to say it but chances are the boy that you choose to father your baby, especially if he is your age, will not be there for the long haul. He may say he will and he may mean it, but you're young and things change and he may realize later that he isn't ready to commit the rest of his life to one person and a baby. And just one day he may leave you, a single mother with a baby. I think this is something you really need to think about... perhaps you can join a group that has young teenage mothers and see up close and personal how it is to have a baby at such an age, and everything they had to give up and wish they'd done differently. Just remember you have years to have a baby, and only one time to be a teenager, and trust me those years fly by the fastest. Take care. 3 gina1210
11/5/2010
Girl, you is 12, and wayyy to young!!!!!! you don't need to be thinking about raising a child, how bout trying to get out of middle school first. you dumb. ") 4 Shan&JadaBestie
11/9/2010
I'm English, I don't go to high school, I go to secondary school, an all girl's school. I hate it there, this baby would be the only good thing in my life. I'm being bullied at my school because I am bi and I've almost committed suicide several times. Life at home is hard too but it used to be worse. This baby would get me through the bad times, you don't understand how bad it is for me here. Plus I already feel like I was pregnant, in September last year I missed a period then in June this year I bled heavily. I have all the symptoms of pregnancy and now miscarriage. I haven't had sex but I have virginal discharge, sore breasts, I need to pee more often, I eat more and the food I used to like I now hate, my stomach is hard all the time. But now it's December and I think I have a dead baby inside of me, please help me. I know sperm dies when it hits air but I was wondering if it was on a towel or something and I used that towel. Please help! = S I'm too scared to go to the doctors on my own, I can't buy a pregnancy test and I have tried to tell my mum once but she thought I was silly x 5 12GirlXx
12/12/2010
Im 14 and just found out last week that Im 3 months pregnant... I dont really think it would be a good idea for you unless you KNOW you can do it. I had to give up alotttt of things since Im now pregnant.... Its just not really worth it unless you know youre 200% capable... And I may not know what im talkin about, but just my opinion... My story: )': I never even liked boys. I thought I was always going to be the good little girl of the family and never touch a guy. But I honestly dont know what happened... I just remember sleeping over at a friends house, and the next thing you know, laying in bed with her brother (who I actually kinda liked! Which is wierd... Cuz i dont like boys... Somethin clicked) And now... Here I am.. Pregnant :/ But I'm mostly worried about how my friends will react to this... I dont mind loosing friends, i guess... But just the thought of all my teachers and besties judging me... And Im also a runner... Well, not anymore :( My parents werent mad because I came right out with the truth and I didnt keep it from them, so Im happy about that. And the baby daddy is staying with me. And This has ruined my life :'( i didnt really want this to happen, but i just.. Got carried away that night with sex. My life is transformed and Im hoping I can finish school and graduate and still go on with getting a sports management degree, and a Track scholarship. Any advice is helpful... :/ thankss. 6 Why_Wait_96
12/13/2010
Btw- you cannot get pregnant by rubbing sperm off a towel. It has to be direct contact... I dont think you should have a kid if you dont even know all about sex and its dangers :/ But trust me, youre NOT pregnant by a towel... 7 Why_Wait_96
12/13/2010
Hey Im 22 and found out that I was pregnant not to long ago. Although I always wanted to have children it didnt reduce the shock and how scared I was/am. I currently in college and dont really know what I want to get into but now it really doesnt matter because I have to put the needs of this child first. Before you act you should really think of why you want to have a baby so young? Do you have a good support system? What kind of life would your child have? Would the dad be around? Not many teenage or even young adult guys who get their girlfriends pregnant stick around. Sometimes you find the guy that sticks with you through thick and thin, but many especially at your age aren't so lucky. Having a baby in high school isn't as easy as TV makes it seem. 8 harmony271
1/31/2011
Just say school because I'm not in high school I'm english! And also I'm 13 now just to say and I DO know about sex and its dangers!!! Here we have sex education when we are 10, 12 and 14 onwards... X 9 12GirlXx
5/19/2011
Pregnancy can be a lot harder than you think. YOu are 12, go and enjoy your life, when you can. 12 is too early. I wish you the best 11 Sarah23456
7/14/2017
Oh wow. At 12 years old and already bermenna. How do you live with this? It's probably difficult to be a pregnant teenager. When pregnancy comes at an adolescent age it's wonderful. But in your case - this is a serious test. I know such a case. One woman aged 66 turned to the clinic. She wanted very much to become a mother. And a miracle happened. Thanks to good doctors, "grandmother" became a full-fledged mother. This was even written in a Swiss magazine. Yes, only I do not remember how he talks. By the way, if interested, this is the clinic BioTechCom. Hit with their amazing results. I wish you patience. Be strong 12 alexxas
7/22/2017
Oh sorry. The name of the clinic BioTexCom. Wish you the best 13 alexxas
7/22/2017
Better say to your mom or ask suggestions from your loved one because having sex at this age is not good. Have a great breath and relax yourself.. consult your doctor about this and she might surely help you 14 sanjana
7/23/2017
haha, that is so sweet, but no. It's not the right age. You should not be thinking of having a baby at this age. You are baby yourself, honey. It's your time to play with baby dolls and not with actual babies. Have you got any brothers or sisters? Especially younger ones... if you have, play with them. 15 Webber
11/12/2017
Hello girl. I am shocked after reading your post. You are just 12, little girl. How will you be able to have a baby? You should not be even thinking about a baby as you are a kid yourself. Having kids is a great responsibility. I donít think that you will able to have the responsibility of a baby at such a young age. 16 Lambert
11/12/2017

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