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I am 13 and i am pregnany |
| i need all the help i can get please help me i need i am very young to be having akid will an one help me
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samantha
11/30/2009 |
| Hi welcome friend, I am here for you to provide sufficient in information to solve your problem to conceive effectively at this minor age. I can understand your problem very easily because I also feel same type of problem in my life just 2 year ago. I want to suggest you some most important thing you should keep in mind to handle this horrible problem in your life is that you should not compromise with your health at any cost. You should understand the importance of exact age achievement to pregnant that is win-win situation for you and your baby in healthy way. I want to forget those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to my early pregnancy at age of 13. It is very horrible situation in my life that is similar to death in installment. We consult with gynecologist to get permanent solution of my problem of early pregnancy at age of 13.
This is golden opportunity for you to understand importance of early pregnancy through my personal life experience. You should not miss this unforgettable moment in your life. You should use extra protection to avoid pregnancy. It is very important to understand each other physical needs and requirement very well to decide healthy baby gift in your life. I think it is not right time to take this holy decision in your life. You can consult with your friend to discuss about easy pregnancy to achieve your target to enjoy healthy baby gift in your life that is known as labor fruit. It is too early age to make this decision in your life. I hope you get sufficient information to clear your doubt regarding early age pregnancy.
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deepieku
9/1/2017 |
| Ok, the first thing you need to do is take a breath!!! A BIG ONE!!! Go outside if you can and look at the stars do something to relax! Don't listen to the people that are chewing you out! block all that behind you and get it out of your head. Now tell yourself ok I am 13 and I am pregnant!! breath!! ok, Now the hard part. telling mom!!! set her down nice and easy and just start off saying, mom, i need your support right now more than anything right now but try to stay calm! then tell her that it is life changing and it has happened and that you don't need her to yell at you right now then tell her it was a big mistake!! then you and her need to talk to gather about what to do from here!! Just keep in consideration that there are a lot of people who cant have kids who would love to adopt!!! it is a big life changing a thing that you have done! I am a mom of a 5-month-old girl and was told I might not have kids! And yes I was looking an adopting when they told me that and even after she got her I still looking at adopting!! Next step I know you don't want to hear this but honey I don’t think he had one. did you see him put it on? did you see the wrapping? did he even take time to put one on? and yes I know I don’t know him or you nor was I there!! you will have to tell him you cant hid it and if you do get an abortion he still needs to know so that next time you will more careful and it's your body and your choice if he doesn't want the baby than he doesn't have to be in that child's life!!
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sonamgupta2107
9/16/2017 |
| Hi Samantha. I understand what you are currently going through. I am a mother of a baby girl too. I am trying to advice you from a mother point of view. I cannot judge you for what you have found yourself into. People do make mistakes but we have to try to move over them. I can neither judge you for being pregnant. But to be honest, you are too young to be pregnant. Nevertheless, I cant judge you. I hope your parents understand the situation are in too. Is the baby daddy ready to assist in raising the kid? As a mother I cannot tell you to abort. There are many people looking for a child. I also understand the pressure that comes with it. People will look at you for being pregnant at 13. You have to realize everyone sins. Just because we sin different from you that does not make us righteous. If you cant keep the bay, you can look for someone to adopt it. Otherwise know that children are a blessing from God. All the best in the decision you will make.
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Noreen
10/19/2017 |
